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Sexual Health He doesn't want to have sex with condoms. What should I do?
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My friend with benefits hates condoms. He told me that because he is cut he has minimum pleasure from sex when wearing condoms. I am so so worried of getting pregnant, I can't go on pill or any hormonal contraception because of my health problems. He is still insisting on raw sex and I am scared that if I don't allow it he will leave me.
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25 80For starters you can always say access denied or you can always put a little itching powder on your taco & when he has sex with you he’ll start itching up a storm & tell him you think you have STD’s & you told him he should of used a condom.
If he doesn’t understand that you’re comfortable with it then honestly I would just cut them off. That’s such a dumb thing to argue about that’s your health on the line in comparison to his pleasure he’s so stupid I think you should find a different friends with benefits
Answer is simple. Do you think he is worth the risk or not? If you don't want to get pregnant then don't do it. Chances are that you won't (if he pulls out), but you should view yourself as priority when it comes to sex. Are you ready to have a kid with a guy who most likely is gonna bail out? Ask yourself that and the answer should be easy for you.
My wife and I are in a similar situation. I don't like condoms but the fact is that sooner or later the pull out method fails. Best to take a hard line on this, especially if you are not monogamous.
He probably will leave you but thats a hell of a lot better then getting pregnant and having him leave you with a kid, low chance he will give you any child support.
Tell him tough titty. He wears the sleeve or no penetration. I'm guessing you have feelings for him which is why you are afraid he will leave?
Talk to him about it. Ask about alternatives. Best thing to do is find good contraceptive pills and/or other versions of condoms, e. g. condoms that go into the vagina.
1) You should be on some form of contraception
2) You should not continue having sex with him.
Why are you worried about him leaving? That was my advice, find a new friends with benefits. One that won't have a problem with it. I wouldn't take the risk personally and you as a woman, it's much "easier" to find a new one then it is for guys to.
Stick to what you know is right. No condom no sex. You don't want to be having sex with someone who won't be responsible about it.
Then say no way it's not worth it
If you're not willing to risk it and he's not willing to put on a condom, then just don't fuck.
Simple.
Find a new one then.
Just because you're naive and young doesn't mean you have to react like you're stupid and dumb. Ain't no amount of cuteness or sexiness on this earth gonna help when you
join the ranks of unwed, single mothers.
Have you seen medical report that proves he is cut? Also, there are other factors. STD's. If he insists, and you don't want to. tell him to go have sex by himself.
It’s not up to him. He wraps it or he can go Jack off in a corner whilst you find a better quality partner.
Dump him !
I'm cut, makes no difference. Dump. him.
Mann fuck that dont even allow him to have sex with you withoit a condom. Tell him if he's not gonna wanna have sex with a condom then u guys aren't having sex at all.
Dump him.