He goes soft when he's inside me?

Me and my boyfriend have a great relationship and great chemistry! Sometimes when we have sex... I feel him go soft inside of me? He says I turn him on and I do get him hard. He says I am sexy (even though I'm chubby) but yet during sex after I came like 1-3 times I feel him go soft... He tells me he hasn't came but... I dont know what to think! Help?
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  • I know when i masturbate and my pre cum gets all over me i go soft to..
    its because whn i masturbate i like it dry.. he might like it dry too but when he's inside of you it might be so wet in there he goes soft

    even though when its wet we go soft if you still do it fast enough we can still cum and because its wet when we cum the orgasm is amazing.. but we like the built up dry

    try jacking him first then when he's hard put him inside of you.

    • I actually tried that the other night! He was hard for a good while! But after I came... He went soft... :/

    • maybe thats whats making him soft, try taking it out when you cum?

  • Probably performance anxiety. He should try getting a prescription for Cialis and if that works as well for him as it does for me, once he gets in the habit of being hard inside you. it'll happen naturally.

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  • You are not keeping him excited.

    Chew his ears, nipples or neck.

    Work out what you can just say to him too get him hard, then say/whisper that or similar to him when he is inside you.

  • He ain't hitten it right

  • Can you describe the time periods?

    • Well he'll be pounding me for a good 7 minutes then I come... After that... I feel him going soft... Then after a while he'll get hard inside me again, then once I come... Same thing happens.

    • Assuming he's close to your age, that's unusual. It's not unusual for men to lose their erection after30 minutes, but then have it come back for another 30 minutes, so many he's just a fast cycler. In any case it has nothing to do with his attraction for you, it's a blood pressure issue.

    • Sorry maybe not many

  • When a guy is getting laid he isn't gonna lose his erection because he isn't attractive. He could be slightly dysfunctional :')

  • Just know that it's not you!!! This has happened to me before... I was taking a stimulate for adhd and the same experience rook place. It had something to do with the blood flows. Anyway the doc got the dosage right and now my tally Wacker stays straight. This may help ya out.

  • u trying to say that he loses his erection during intercourse?

    • Yes.

    • did he able to cum after it?

  • He needs to get healthier and also is putting so much pressure on himself to make you achieve orgasm so when you do he is out of gas.

  • Well I don't know it can be because of you being Chubby..! Maybe you are putting pressure of his dick? Are you light weight...

    Or maybe it's normal... going soft and hard.. Cause that happens to us while having sex...

  • I had that happen to me when I lost my virginity. It was with a girl I had just met. Great sex, but it was the worst mistake I had ever made

    • Can that mean the same thing with him? We've been together for 2 years and we lost our virginities over a year ago to each other!

    • Maybe, just saying what happened to me, doesn't mean why he might be