He got hard and didn't continue?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend was fingering me

Got hard

When i came

He didn't continue

I wanted but i did t tell him... i thought he would continue

And he thought about pulling his cock out but thought i had enough

And didn't do nothing

So when i came he went to smoke

And after hours when i asked dont you want sex, he told me that, but he didn't want anymore he was tired

When asked why he didn't tell me he wanted sex, he couldnt answer me, he said"i dont know"

Whats really going on and what to do to fix this siuation?

Im tired having sex once a month!

This month we didn't even fuck yet

[strlb]

Hmmm seems odd. Maybe he came and didn't tell you or masturbated earlier so he had nothing left. With this being a regular occurrence I tend to think there is another more going on; either seeing someone else or (not to sound crude) just not into you for whatever reason. How is your relationship functioning outside of sex?

[Asker]

How can see see someone else makes no sense in that exact moment he was with me

[strlb]

Makes total sense if he's getting laid before he is with you.

[Asker]

But he is not I work with him I see him nearly every weekend After work i drive him home We call each other everyday say good night I know he literally doesn't have time for it He introduced me to his friends as his girlfriend 2 days ago Im sure there is no other woman Its something else

[stratford]

Perhaps he was nervous of what might happen if he came, or if he suffers from PE he doesn't want to get embarassed.

[Asker]

I feel like he is afraid of me

[stratford]

Have you ever touched his dick through his pants? How did he react?

[Asker]

He liked it

[stratford]

Perhaps he was a little close to ejaculating or was worried you'd think he was being to pushy? Did you like what you felt?

[Asker]

I did Wanted more tho

[stratford]

Next time, just unzip him an if he doesn't resist, slide your hand in. Did he feel large or small?

[connemara_crocodile]

100% sure he was too close to come when you came, and he was afraid of conung too fast and embarrass himself.

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[connemara_crocodile]

He knew if he started to have sex he would finish within seconds and that would embarrass him

[boggboss]

Sounds like he has a super low sex drive

[Asker]

Its what he says But how is it posible... to be fingering your girl, getting hard af and not even ask if she wants to fuck Just stop when she is done and thats it Why not continue When he did it he didn't even kiss me Just hand in my pussy rubbing amd thats it How to improve his sex drive then? I asked if im not hot for him He says yes i am So he sees me sexy and likes to be with me and spend time together, but sex is horrible Better say no sex... we , if lucky, fuck once a month

[boggboss]

Again its because he has a low sex drive he fingered u because thats what he thought u wanted once u came he sees it as him pleasured u so now its iver because he didn't want sex getting hard for a male don't mean u want to have sex it just means u got turned on and even then some guys can get hard just randomly

[Asker]

He wanted sex He said so He wanted to pull out his cock He wanted to fuck But thought i had enough... Why not ask me Why he did nothing I was Waiting gor him to do it

[boggboss]

If thats true why didn't u say anything as he is already pleasuring u this just shows u guys are shit at communicating

[boggboss]

Loke all you are showing Is u are both unable to then communicate your sexual wants and needs but you are blaming him when u are both to blame

[Asker]

I thought he would continue Also i was fine with fingering But i couldnt even imagine he wants it and hides it from me Why? why hide he wants sex?

[boggboss]

How is he hiding it if u said he told u after

[boggboss]

Also saying u though he would continue means nothing as qe don't know what he was thinking so again u guys clearly have a issue with communication

[Asker]

Only becaue i started asking question I asked dont you want sex... like 1 hour after fingering He was like no... but i did when was fingering you Thats why i exploded with why not tell me?

[boggboss]

Gag can't give u that's answer tho only he can if your not satisfied and u have made that clear and nothing changed then break up with him

[TheSpaceGnome]

He smokes, smoking can ruin your sex drive.

[Asker]

Pot Everyday

[TheSpaceGnome]

THC blocks nervous system receptors, anything that does that can interfere with sex drive. Inhaling smoke put the body in recovery mode, anything that does that also can interfere with sex drive.

[TheSpaceGnome]

puts*

[Jamie05rhs]

Lol. Learn to use your mouth to talk. That's its primary purpose, you know.
If you want him to fuck you, say "Fuck me"!

[Stevefiveo]

Very weird. Get a new boyfriend.

[Surely]

As he gets older. It will probably get worse!
I know the feeling. I get sex once a month, if I am lucky!

[smilelots]

you need to talk to him and be honest about how you feel , about what happen and what is happening now.. just be honest.

[Jerre]

Think you need to find someone who will fuck you more often. Most guys will fuck you weekly, sometimes more often.

[Asker]

Not him

[MasterKS]

caught on the wrong dick.

[Asker]

What it means

[MasterKS]

you dont know? lets talk private. follow me.

[Asker]

You can tell me here its ok

[Cheerfull009]

May be he wanted to go next sesdion

[Asker]

No he didn't We nearly got into fight over this I dont feel satisfied

[Boysface_18]

İs your boyfriend uncircumcised or circumcision

[Asker]

No he is not

[Anonymous]

GO TO HELL

[Opinion Owner]

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[Anonymous]

Maybe he rather get high, then have sex

[Asker]

He smokes pot everyday

[Opinion Owner]

I guess he enjoys that better than sex, but don’t forget pot is a depressant

[Asker]

He can't sleep without it

[Opinion Owner]

That’s quite an addiction and it’s definitely lowering his sex drive and testosterone