He has a lot of girls-friends, and parties with them in groups. I'm the one he booty calls at the end of the night? Why am I in this category?

We are friends with benefits. Why can I not be one of those girls he hangs out with outside of sex? They're all really pretty, and I not to sound dumb, but I would fit in the group quite well?
Why am I categorized like this, and how do I become some one he can have fun with outside the bedroom as well?
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  • You really don’t understand friends with benefits do you
    yes there might be friends in the title but the truth is friends with benefits is really you just being a booty call when you both want to have sex you don’t hang out with the person outside of having sex with them if you start to hang out with them outside of sex then it will end up causing issues between you because more then likely you are gonna end up with feelings for him which I wouldn’t be surprised if you haven’t already developed feelings already since you are wanting to hang out with him

    Why are you categorised like this simple because you put yourself in that position the very moment you agree to be a booty call

    • Who fucking cares how old you are your his booty call get that threw your fucking dumb brain of yours

    • Girl chill by the way i have no problem with catching feelings with him, so yeah I'm probably emotionally invested. But I guess I just dont get why he doesn't want to hang out with me himself, since these girls are the same type as me

    • you don’t get it he doesn’t want to hang out with you because he doesn’t have feelings for you and he doesn’t see you as a friend you are just a booty call that is all you will ever be

Most Helpful Girl

  • Maybe he's also banging all of them in groups. So when he gets horny after, those girls might be tired or satisfying another guy and you're free

Most Helpful Guy

  • You are his booty call, not his friend with benefits, that's why the friend part is not there.

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  • Why?
    Do you like him and hope for something more?

    • Yes, I think so

    • Well thats not going to happen. You're his friends with benefits and he wants to keep it that. If you want something else in the relationship then communicate that with him or break it off and find someone who does want a relationship.

    • how would I communicate it to him, the next time he hits me up

  • Because he see's you for only one thing and its sex. But you should ask him about this.

    • Yeah I guess. Do you think I can change that somehow? I'm the same type as those girls, so it's really bugging me that he seems to care about them, but not for me

    • All you can do is try and hopefully he agrees.

    • Girl you are a booty call why would he care about you when all he sees you as is some pussy to fuck when he is horny you clearly have feelings for this guy but ultimately in the end you are only gonna end up walking away crying with your heart broken

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