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  • Well, I wouldn't say to automatically run. It depends on a whole lot about what's going on with this specific guy, and how you, personally feel.

    So first of all, if, for you, the fact that this guy has a porn addiction is just so off-putting that it makes him unattractive to you. That's a legitimate way to feel. You have every right to feel that way, and should feel you need to apologize for it. That is a matter of your own personal views and feelings on it.

    But, it doesn't mean that he's "a bad guy" or that he'll be "a bad boyfriend." He may very-well be both of those things. I don't know this guy. But if he is a shitty dude, or a shitty boyfriend... it's not BECAUSE he's got a porn addiction.

    I think it also depends on how he views his own addiction. There is a difference between someone who doesn't think they're a porn addict (but you do). vs. someone who acknowledges they have a porn addiction... and seems ok to just... chill with it vs. a guy who says he has a porn addiction, really wishes he didn't, and is open to the idea of hopefully trying to deal with it.

    I am a guy who'll never hesitate to tell a girl I don't know... that the guy she's talking to is showing red flags. This is not one. Not by itself.

    Now, if he's a guy, for example with a porn addiction WHO HAS ALSO picked up some really fucked-up ideas about "women" from porn... that's a whole other thing (some porn is pretty fucking messed-up... if a dude actually like...'believes' that shit... you've got a whole other problem. And that IS a red flag. A huge one)

    I think though, that what this is going to mainly come down to is:

    1. How you, personally feel about this

    2. How exactly you feel about him. (is he some dude you met on tinder? or a guy you really like who you just discovered has a porn addiction. etc)

    This one really is mostly a matter of "personal preference." But you certainly don't HAVE to run just because he's got a porn addiction. If you choose to. Fair enough. But if you choose not to... that is not making a bad or stupid choice. It's really all up to you. 🙂

Most Helpful Guy

  • That may be an option if he's a serious addict and isn't willing to change or get help if necessary. You have to put yourself first and do what's best for you.

    • Thank you for the MHO. 😊

Most Helpful Girls

  • Why do u feel the need to run huhh.. there's nothing wrong in it..
    Try joining in with him n copy the acts so he would be more involved in u for what he sees in porn

    • MHO right here. Here's a funny story my music teacher told the class. Bach, the German composer from the late Baroque period, liked to compose on his harpsichord upstairs. (they hadn't invented the piano, yet) But they also had one downstairs. Mrs. Johann: Honey, dinner is ready. Johann: I'll be right there. (45 minutes goes by) Mrs. Johann: Johann, your dinner is getting cold. Johann: I'll be right there. (another 45 minutes goes by. So Mrs. Johann sat down at the harpsichord and started to play a chord progression. But she didn't play the final resolution chord. All chord progressions need to be resolved, but she didn't do it. It's kind of like the orgasm at the end. So Mrs. Johann edged the shit out of Johann, and this made him fidget, and finally came down. He ran over to the harpsichord and resolved the progression) Johann: Damn you woman, stop teasing me like that. Mrs. Johann: Then come to dinner on time. :) So in this question, the girl should enter the same room he's watching porn in, and stand across the room. Then she slowly does a striptease act. After that, she begins her "chord progression" but out of the blue she announces she will be back soon, and just needs to go to the bedroom, and watch something on her laptop. Vegas odds are that he follows behind her. lol

  • Depends. Is it affecting your sex life? Are you against him watching porn? And does he know your thoughts on it?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Type and volume matter. Whether it not it really is an addiction matters. Some women think men are addicted to NASCAR or Golf.

  • I see porn addiction as an escapism. If you think you can satisfy his sex drive then bring it up to him. If you can't then we'll, let him do his thing

  • does he have a clinically diagnosed porn addiction or does he just watch a bunch of porn and you figured it must be an addiction?

  • Yes, run like the wind.

  • Yes, move along. Nothing to see here.

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