He has sex with me while I'm sleeping?

Okay so this might be extremely weird or just a common kink, I really have no idea, that's why I'm asking. Well my boyfriend has a hard time falling asleep so I always fall asleep before him, and one day I woke up to him touching me and undressing me. I was startled, and so I asked him what was going on and we just had regular sex. So he continued to do this sparingly, and one night I just decided to pretend I was still asleep. He continued on and seemed very turned on by the whole thing. Now, it has become more regular and I notice it puts him right to sleep. We still have sex while I'm awake obviously, but I'm just wondering if anyone has ever heard of this fetish or do you think I should be worried?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • If u don't mind it fine :)
    I also think of it.
    I would like to ask her one day can u pretend to be asleep and I fuck u XD.

    But if u mind talk about it.
    And best thing to do u 2 discuss what u have fetishes and fantasies do them for each other.
    Have transparent and open conversation make each other happy :)

  • It's a common fetish plenty of porn vids out there for this kind of thing. I say a dude shouldn't do that unless his girl gives consent way before hand that way she won't be surprised when she wakes up

Most Helpful Girls

  • it's concerning that he didn't ask you if this would be okay with you first. really, really concerning. i don't think the fetish itself is the problem... but what the fuck... he should have gotten your consent.

  • Ummm.. so he's having sex with you while you're unconscious? I mean it seems like you aren't affected by it but usually when someone is unconscious while having sex it means rape?

  • As long as you have said it is ok before hand then its fine. I've met guys like that and I dont have a problem with it.

  • its a fetish. so dont worry. As long as he has sex with you when you are up, its all good

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  • so you pretend to be sleeping and he persists? I've heard of being woke in the middle of the night for the same thing but I don't know

  • I guess it is a thing for him but its kinda weird for it to happen often like he counts on it, if you have a problem I would tell him ab it

  • hell no wrong your not a tool for him to use when he needs sleep

  • sounds a bit rapey to me

  • i heard about this on this site a lot of times, by girls

  • It is up to u.. If u like it.. It is not a problem but if u don't like it then talk with him about this.. After all he is your boy friend nd u sex with him while u awake so it is not considered as rape.. If u like this u have to enjoy this..

  • It would probably creep me out tbh