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He hasn't gone down on me?

The guy I'm newly dating hasn't given me oral yet and I don't know what to do about it. Sex is over really quick between us I thought he was really experienced confident but now it feels like I have to guide him which I've never done before. I don't really know how to approach the situation? He is really sweet and would lie with me for an hour after just to cuddle if he's not staying over, he always will text me after he got home to say what a great night he had but I'm left feeling a bit unsatisfied.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Sounds Like He May Be Very Sexually Inexperienced.
    He May Be Afraid To Try Oral, He Could Be Waiting For You To Guide Him Down There.
    Some Guys Believe After They Cum Sex Is Over, They Do Not Think To Keep Going Until You Have Both Cum Mutiple Times.
    You May Have To Teach Him What Turns You On, What Gets You Off.

    • Yeah I was talking to him today I suggested a few little things. And he looked really excited saying that I could teach him a thing or two. I always thought he was a big player cause girls are always all over him but maybe he's not. So I'm glad I talked to him about it he opened up to me a bit more.

    • Very Glad To Hear This, Hopefully He Will Open Up More!

  • Tell him you want him to go down on you, and guide him/teach him what gets you off. If he's a decent guy like you say, then all he needs is permission and some guidance. This is your chance to teach him to please you exactly the way you like it.

Most Helpful Girl

  • You should tell him and be honest with him. If you don't tell him, he will never know.
    He might explain why he hasn't given you oral.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Why don't you whisper in his ear you want him to eat you out?

  • Ugh don't force him to do it but it's not that serious.. do u smell funny dwn there just asking lol jk but some guys are too romantic for that type of shit you need a freaky dude.

  • Tell him about it. How can he improve if he doesn't know

  • tell him. why is this a hard concept for people to grasp?

  • Tell him what you want. It almost always helps

  • Why are you into sex? Just love him for he's Do you have to give an oral? Let it go for now

    • What do you mean why am I into sex? Sex is a big part of a relationship. Yes I give him lots of oral so I won't be letting it go.

    • Sex is important but not that important, it's not some kind of a thing to be unhappy because of it

  • Definitely need to communicate that to him, do you give him oral?

    • Yeah I always give him oral , but tbh I usually take charge when we have sex. I dropped a hint that I like the man to be in charge and he said he'll remember that.

    • He may not get the hint, try doing a 69 that way you both get enjoyment at the same time , hopefully he will be into trying new things like that

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