Guys, he hasn't initiated sex when we had the chance?

[Anonymous]

Seeing this guy. We have gotten affectionate very quick and he is quite touchy and comfortable with that. Only thing is I was a little hesitant to have sex too early on in dating and now finally i'm sort of ready. When we were drunk we went quite far and i thought it was nice he didn't pressure me all the way. now though we have had more opportunity in the daytimes alone in the house and have been making out heavily but he just hasn't gone and touched down there even or started to let his horny side take over. Even when I've made it clear with my body actions that i would like it. I like the intimacy but i want to know what sex will be like. if itll ruin it or feel awkward. i just want to get closer but also sort of see what it's all like in that department - maybe itll help me be certain about him or not. i said he could stay over and he wanted to but then didn't. anotehr opposite boy sign im not used to with men. It almost feeel slike he sorta wants to but doesn't at the same time. Im used to guys just going for it, taking more charge. i know he's had a longer term girlfriend and i knows he's really into me and he is also a few years older. Thinking maybe it could be a performance concern? or a size thing? I don't even know. I have already touched it down there bfore that drunken night and it was all a good night and morning the next day. How long can i wait... no, it's more i just like a guy to want to want me sexually more and be more dominant about it... maybe he just wants it to be night...

[Peter0]

Let's see. You let him know you weren't ready for sex. Now you are. Have you let him know that in any way besides subtle hints? Because subtle hints are not a good way to communicate that... if a guy is conscientious, he's not going to risk raping his girl because he *thinks she wants it" or something like that. You need to be an adult and let him know you're ready to give sex a shot!

You'll be happy you did :)

(doesn't have to be anything more than "I may be feeling more ready for sex these days" and see if he takes it from there?)

[tyber1]

You let him know you weren't ready for sex
Her respected your decision
You changed your mind
You didn't tell him

What part of this is complicated?

He is restraining himself because he knows you want to wait and hinting with your 'body actions' is probably not enough to convince him to go for it because he probably realizes that 'body actions' can be deceiving, a girl can physically crave sex while being emotionally unprepared for it.

Get off this site and tell him to fuck you.

[zorro8888]

Maybe he didn't do anything because you were drunk that night.

[275153]

Talk to him. Be open. All of these issues can be avoided by communication.

[KidanisCortes]

You can try seducing him into it somehow

[SummerAccount2015]

Maybe he's just not into you.

[Asker]

i know he is - maybe even too much so

[SummerAccount2015]

Well, solves that.

[lamborgini15]

just tell him you want to when the next situation arises. Maybe he has a micro penis and does not want to pull it out and be embarrissed

[monstermax316]

Girls are f#cked . He can't read your mind , just tell him

[Anonymous]

Next time you have intimacy, put your hands on his dick, or put your hands down his pants and say you want him inside you. He will throw himself over you. And it will turn him on like a freight train. Trust me, Im a guy.