Actual owner of a big dick here. Besides being long, it is very thick, girth of 6.5 inches (16.5cm). Thickness is usually the issue for penetration.
Extensive foreplay with oral is a prerequisite. Your vagina must be fully relaxed. In your situation, I strongly recommend that you have an orgasm during foreplay.
The best position for penetration is for you to be on top. My preference is the cowgirl. It puts you in complete control of how the penetration procedes. A lot of water based lube will help a lot. Use lube even if you are wet.
If penetration is a problem, using a thick dildo will aid in stretching your vagina. Also if sex is uncomfortable, use the dildo to stretch. My SO does it if a business trip prevents us from having sex for several days.
It's not uncommon to experience minor tears in the vagina wall from sex with a big dick. Just refrain from sex for a few days for them to heal. Use coconut oil to facilitate healing and prevent infection. Then use more lube in the future.
Just think about how much your pussy stretches out when it comes time to HAVE a baby! If that huge thing can slide out of you,. his dick shouldn't be a problem! And, the more you take it, the less it's gonna be a problem, IF it's even a problem, now! My first ex-GF told me the day we broke up, "Never fuck a girl that hasn't already had a baby." I asked why. She said, "Because your dick is so BIG!!" By that time, she was 19 and had a daughter that was 3. I've fucked two other girls a number of times since then and they had no problem with it. One of THEM also had a baby a few years before we met.
I can assure you you're going to enjoy it. Best of luck. :p
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Sounds silly to me, just tell him to go easy. Every guy loves hearing about how big his junk is, so tell him your concerned and that he needs to go easy. I am sure you will get into it, if he goes about it right.
Now I am only 7 inches, but most guy run into the too big issue with anal for the first few times, but a women's vagina is very resilient.
Buy a dildo same size or slightly larger and lube
then just try it in a relaxed way.
getting a complex and worried about it before hand will be counterproductive
Well if you can't handle it then you should not date him. :)
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If you are properly relaxed and aroused enough it shouldn't be a problem, just make sure he goes slow, or do a position where you are in control like cowgirl, that way you control the speed and depth of penetration. You need to find a way to relax because the more tense you are the worse it will be. Maybe try some meditation and visualisation exercises.
Thanks for the tips!
Good luck and relax.
You might have Vaginismus
I mean how big are u actually talking about? As long as he doesn't go too rough i don't see why ur so worried
Remember, you're capable of having a baby.
Yeah, but if I ever had one I would do C section because my vagina has teared many times because of big penis. That's why I'm scared because I think this is the biggest I've been with.
Use lots of lube and go slow.
Yes I will try my best on relaxing etc. But I'm scared if it doesn't fit because we like each other a lot so what happens to our sex life then?
Yeah you might have to take it slow and try to relax more. Maybe get some lube so he can go in. Also maybe at first use a dildo about his size and practice with that or maybe when you start having sex maybe just let him enter the tip or not go all the way in. As time goes on then maybe you be able to take all of him
He can't be too big. A baby's head can fit through there.
At first let u an him try it doggy style then see what happen's.
God Bless
If women can push a baby out of their vagina, then you have no worry's because i have never seen a penis as fat as a baby's head or shoulders. So, anything he has will fit easily.
Once you really get into it you will get really wet and loosen up.. Tell him to go slow at the beginning.. you may need lube also. Let the fear go and you will be fine.. After a few times it will fit fine. .
But remember the most important thing... After having a big one he will ruin you for other guys after that lol
Like how big?
Go slow and tell him to eat your pussy and finger it to make you wet and open up for his dick.
at least try it lol
I will. This problem sounds so dumb but I'm genuinely concered and we really like each other so I'm afraid this will affect our sex life.
Find another smaller male.
Use a personal lubricant. Make sure you and his penis are wet with it.
When he enters you, have him do so with a series of short pushes. We used coaching words. When it started to pinch, she whispered "ok". When she was ready for the next she said, louder "OK".
You have two pockets in your vagina. The one above your cervix (anterior fornix) is barely 3" deep and tops out solidly beneath your bladder. Pushing against that can hurt.
The missionary position will aim him there.
The other, below your cervix is much deeper, at least 5" and can stretch to a longer length. Although I don't prefer Doggy, that will place you there. Once you become comfortable with his size, your dear should go away. Bear in mind that your vagina can pass a baby's head, which is much wider than any penis.
Just go slow, take your time and get used to it by playing with it.
Lots of lube lots of foreplay, make sure he gets you comfortable by licking you and fingering you.
I know for sure one thing that relaxes me, it's if I come first. After that I'm very wet and not too tight
That's perfect then. Make sure he makes you cum first.
I’m on the bigger side. I always do a lot of foreplay (I like that stuff too) and spend time eating her out or fingering her before I even bother putting it in. I make her orgasm first so she is more lubricated and open to me before intercourse.
Lol. Your fear is not senseless. But your pussy is lucky to feel his monster penis.
Thanks I guess? Lol. But yeah I'm genuinely concerned how it affects our sex life
You may probably prefer men with bigger dick after this. Still smaller with higher horse power can do wonders. I think there's nothing to worry
Yeah, I'm also concerned it will do damage on my vagina.
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