He likes to masturbate?

My boyfriend of 2 years loves to have me lay naked on the bed with my legs open and touching myself while he masturbates. Is this normal? Does he prefer masturbating because the sex is bad? I love having him watch me but sometimes I wonder if he prefers masturbation instead of sex with me.
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  • *Giggle* He might have what I have: A Masturbation fetish. I VERY MUCH desire to have a wonderful relationship with a Girl where we have Mutual Masturbation romps together. I'm CERTAIN that He loves the Sex. (I would too) But sometimes, I'm sure He gets that fetish on the Mind, and wishes to have it done. You can monitor Him! Does He react differently to Masturbating than Sex? If you have questions, you can at least ask Him!

  • That is totally hot I like that to no if he likes thst he also likes making love I mean if I was doing that I say 8 out of 10 times I would wait for the right moment and slowly stuff it in I would have to lol because I want to make her orgasm with me,, I might also just be lazy lol you have to be in shape good shape alwayvto make love for a long time

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  • He enjoys the visual of watching you. Fairly normal I think, although most people "probably" would want sex along with it. I doubt that he thinks that the sex is bad. He probably just has some preference for this.

  • How often your boyfriend have actual sex with you? anyway it sounds like a fetish, and yea it might be because he don't like sex and/or because he is lazy, but that said, he is still doing that with you and not with other woman, so at least he is not cheating on you.

  • it sounds normal to me but i do actually really love masturbation so i can see why you are asking... thing is masturbation can seem just as intimate in the scenario you mention because its like you are both giving up all inhibitions for each others pleasure. if it works and you still have regular sex i think you should just enjoy it for what it is rather than seeing it as any kind of threat or something to worry about

  • Nah nothing unusual. Just something he enjoys. I'm sure there might be something you'd like him to do that'd get you off?

  • Normal, God that sounds perfect

  • that can be hot and fun if liked by both. we do it sometimes as part of foreplay :)

  • It’s probably different for everyone, but at times I would rather masturbate. i wouldn’t worry about it unless it gets excessive.

  • It's perfectly normal and a fetish. You shouldn't worry about it

  • Hmmm it's normal but shouldn't be higher the sex, for example you have this once a month, not always

  • Perhaps masturbation is more of a forbidden fruit for him?

  • It's natural, and better than him cheating on you.

  • Mutual masturbation is fun.

  • Looking at hot girls is really attractive. Before my girlfriend and I had sex I would sit on her and finger her while looking at her top half and masturbate. Now we masturbate together on video chat. We do have sex, but you can't really look at a girl and see how attractive she truly is when you're having sex.

  • yes, very normal, doesn't mean the sex is bad unless he actually says so

  • I think it normally I'd like to do that to

  • it's just a kink he has. I'm sure he would prefer having sex with you. You agreeing to letting him fulfill his kink is just something he is enjoying at the moment and will die down eventually

  • Sounds normal to me lucky man

  • It is normal, you could also try a sexual game who can make the other cum first, also very fun and help you learn to restrain aka. orgasm control.

  • That sounds hot

  • No.. it's not normal

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