He masturbate before we have sex?

[Anonymous]

He masturbate right before meeting me. He sometimes don't cum or goes soft. Why he masturbates before we have sex?

It upsets me when he cannot finish and goes soft

[Finchie40]

He is probably worried that he is going to cum to fast and not be able to please you , is my guess , Most girls don’t realize how sensitive a guy’s penis is to her vagina , if he doesn’t masturbate on a daily basis or doesn’t have sex often his penis becomes very sensitive to the point he will explode the second he is inside her, so my guess is he just wants to please you and is afraid of busting a nut to fast , the more sex you give him the better he will be when it comes to lasting longer , if not then tell his ass to go to the doctor and get viagra , you won’t be complaining lol

[Effably]

I mean... how old is he?

This was a pretty common trick back in my mid-teens or so to not finish too quickly. Seems to backfire a bit if it leads to not finishing at all.

[Asker]

He's 38

[Effably]

Well, if he worries about being a quickshot that's all the more reason I suppose. You could just talk it over with him. There are plenty of other workarounds.

[laraWM]

Did he tell you? Or how do you know that? Maybe he is not comfortable enough

[strateguy632]

depends how many minutes. at seks counselling recommended empty sn hour before to last longer. if soft less than 2 minutes of rub ask doc.

[Asker]

He does. It really upsets me. We are not officially boyfriend and girlfriend I cannot tell 38 year old man to go to the doctor that's mean.

[Kalobus121]

lol, he probably is worried about the time he lasts in bed, so he does it to last longer

[Twalli]

He might do it ai he doesn't have to worry about cumming too soon.

[In_Trance]

Did you ask him why?

[Anonymous]

Stop thinking it's about you, you ever think he's the one who has issue sexually, bloody talk to him

[Anonymous]

You keep posting these questions about 18 year old guys not getting hard. I've never seen one guy not get hard. I think you are an old guy who can't get hard posting these fake questions.

[Asker]

He is 38