He masturbated while he's on phone talking to me?

okay so i've been dating this guy, we're almost 17 and i do admit that i am kind of having sexual desires for him but i do love him. I know the difference between lust and love. We are open with each other actually and do dirty conversations. We suddenly went to the point when we talked about masturbation and watching porn. I'm a girl and i never tried doing it and watching it. I admit that it crossed my mind before but it never happened. So, i asked him a question about it and he said that he do masturbates and watch porn. I am not disappointed because i know that it is a natural thing especially for guys. Then, to the point that he called me on phone while he masturbates. At first, i thought he was just making fun of me but then I realized that he was not, (my gosh, just remembering it is making me wet) His breathe was starting to go faster as if his hand movements were also getting faster. He cussed a lot and i was just listening. He asked me if my ***** was getting wet and it indeed made me wet. His groans, moans and cusses. But then, after he cleans up, he said sorry and realized that it was not right and that it was a mistake. I dont know what to say because i was actually enjoying it but i can't confess that i liked it what he was doing because im ashamed of saying i like it. I dont know what to do and he said that he dont know how to face me anymore because he's alaso ashamed of what he did and he said he's not proud of what he did. But, i enjoyed it.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • ok, umm... sweetheart there is nothing to be ashamed of girls can masturbate and watch porn, we are all sexual creatures, you wouldn't be doing anything wrong if you did those things, it's normal. And you need to tell your boyfriend that him doing that made you wet, it will make him feel better bout what he did and it will grow your relationship emotionally and physically!

    • Its not that i ashamed of masturbating and watching porn but i really never tried even once and doesn't have a plan to do. I also told him that it turned me on and made me wet. I guess it did help because it made him feel better. thanks! :)

  • How about start by telling him it wan not wrong or even adding that you didn't mind it? Personally I feel that if you can be honest you can build a stronger relationship. Having phone sex might even take some of the pressure off having actual sex, until your completely ready that is.

  • Hey if you enjoyed it tell him. There's nothing to be ashamed up tbh. You do you

    • is it bad considering we're both 16 and we're doing this already? but, we're both virgin by the way

    • Honestly do whatever you think is right. You're still Virgins and you're keeping it that way until you find someone you love (Idk whatever you believe in) but it's okay to experiment. Just don't do anything that will make you feel uncomfortable or regret it.

Most Helpful Guys

  • He may be embarrassed. Tell him exactly how you felt. It is ok to talk about sex after all! As you probably know over 95% of young guys masturbate frequently although most will never admit it. Why not try to pleasure yourself? Have you fooled around with your boyfriend at all? If you are comfortable with it guys love handjobs! What are your thoughts?

    • I've tried searching up things in the internet related to how to give handjobs but im still not sure if we can do it i mean give him like that. I'm kind of ashamed but at the same time i want to do it but we don't really have much time with each other in personal because of our busy school works but we always talk through phone and facebook.

    • When you are with him in private ask him to show you how he masturbates. Guys know what they like.. get him to show you that way you will know what to do... ask him for feedback.

  • Tell him you enjoyed it. Problem solved. Your sexuality is natural. You should enjoy yourself, while of course, staying safe :)

    • Is this bad considering we're just 16? :(

    • I mean, if one doesn't have sexual feeling towards their partner in their teens, then when would one should? It's natural. Hormonal. Fun. :P Just go slow, and do things you're comfortable with.

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  • My ex was lying nude on her bed when she called me up

  • Tell him what u feel

  • Tell him it's it's okay, and you enjoyed it