He Netflix and chilled me?

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He asked if i wanted to see a show and as soon as i turned it on he started taking my clothes off. I tried to stop i just wanted to watch it but he started taking my clothes off and having sex. After he came he quickly got up put his clothes on and looked like he wanted to leave. He asked if i wanted to eat , we went through a drive through and then he quickly dropped me off home. I feel sad and used.

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Anonymous
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Sounds like a misunderstanding.
You want love and he only wants you as a fuck buddy.
You better move on because he's just gonna pump and dump you again.
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- Asker
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  The messed up part is that i brought him flowers and watched over him when he was sick with covid and he treats me really badly
- Opinion Owner
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  I'm sorry to hear that, you deserve better. Whenever I watch movies with a woman, first we make supper and eat together. Then we cuddle while watching the movie and kiss sometimes. Then we sleep together in bed and have sex. We wake up holding each other and we just stay together, we have a relationship. I don't understand this "Fuck and run" mentality people have these days.

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Dnc873 Xper 4
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Yeah, you definitely shouldn't have let him get his way that easily. But I'm sorry to hear that, lesson learned I guess?
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TommyMountainFigure Guru
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That's because you WERE used!
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Why is he so mean to me?
- TommyMountainFigure
  +1 y
  Because you allowed him to be.
- Asker
  +1 y
  But what did i do wrong
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- TommyMountainFigure
  +1 y
  When you told him to stop, and he didn't. That is rape. You're here complaining you feel used. Why are you not down the police station having him arrested? THAT is what you do if you don't wish to be used!
- Asker
  +1 y
  I feel partly to blame because i invited him over and our text were flirty before then
- TommyMountainFigure
  +1 y
  It doesn't matter what lead up to that point. You told him to stop.. yes? and he ignored you.. That is rape!
exitseven Master
+1 y
why didn't you say that you didn't want to have sex?
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chriscdi Master
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Should've seen it coming, I'm sure there's many signs he threw off before he went on with his plan
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Medhat-M Xper 6
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I don't know how people are ok with stuff like that... Smh
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- Asker
  +1 y
  I wasn't in control
- Medhat-M
  +1 y
  There must have been signs... You could have avoided it..
SamFromFL Explorer
+1 y
Yes he did. Why did you want him to use you?
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- Asker
  +1 y
  No, i told him i liked him and that i was being vulnerable and that i hope he wouldn't hurt me but i think he took it as a joke
- SamFromFL
  +1 y
  Ok and how many dates had you been on prior to this happening?
- Asker
  +1 y
  Virtually none
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- SamFromFL
  +1 y
  So then don’t invite him over to your place. You didn’t protect yourself. Lesson learned I hope.
- SamFromFL
  +1 y
  Tbh had you experienced 4/5 dates and been getting to know him for a while I would have my sympathy for what happened. But you are older than I am and should know by now not to put yourself into that situation. Part of being vulnerable is only communicating that to someone who has earned your trust.
- Asker
  +1 y
  I haven't had much experience with guys or relationships. I am usually a timid person coming out of my shell i wasn't prepared
- SamFromFL
  +1 y
  Yes that is apparent. Do you feel like you will learn lessons and next time be safer in decisions about being with a guy? Like meet at a public place, drive your own car, let a few friends know where you are and with whom..
- Asker
  +1 y
  Yes just feel stupid as an almost 30 yr old woman
- SamFromFL
  +1 y
  We all do foolish things. Key is to move forward and not repeat your mistakes. Dwelling on the feeling isn’t helpful.
Yellovv Guru
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İs he had sex with you without your permission?
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- Asker
  +1 y
  I resisted but got scared
- Yellovv
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  That is rape..