He never wants to be in control?

[Anonymous]

He'll be on top occasionally but only when I literally can't (like when my leg was broken). Other than that he wants me on top doing all the work. Sex gets so boring when its just me doing anything. Why won't he just take control sometimes?

[harvest]

Few possible reasons:
1. He's lazy and doesn't want to do all the work.
2. He's out of shape and doesn't want to show that to you by stopping mid-sex because he's out of breath
3. He prefers cow-girl position and doesn't like missionary
4. These is some other unknown reason why he won't commit to sex that we don't know

[ChrisMaster69]

This is where you need to talk to him.

discuss what you want and need from sex and a realtionship.

talk about role play, introduce him slowly to being in control.

some guys find it hard to be in control, some are actually submissive ( even big macho guys).

[nodnol32]

Try some position invoving sides or equal effort.

[DavidFox]

Is he also lazy in other aspects of his life?

[chriscdi]

that sucks, he doesn't know his girl sometimes wants to be flipped over and fucked, thats buzz no cap smh

[devil_8888]

He’s submissive and wants you to be dominant. Did you tell him this?

[Valnac]

OMG... you have to change it up, idiot!

[CubaPirate]

Time to move on imfao

[Seppel]

I am exactly like that. I hate to Control things

[Anonymous]

you need to share both take turns