He prefers doggystyle over missionary and other positions?

My boyfriend is 20 and I'm 19. We've been together for 3 years almost. Does this mean that I could be loose so therefore doggystyle feels best for him because it makes me tighter? We start out with missionary sometimes and he tells me that he wants to finish in Doggy. I dont mind, I really like that position and he's able to go hard and deep, which feels amazing for me. But I'm feeling a bit self conscious because recently all we've been doing is doggy style. And even if we start out with something else, he wants to cum in doggy style position. He says doggy is his favorite position and that he likes going deep. He has finished in missionary before but it was so long ago.. I'm worried that maybe he doesn't like looking at my face anymore during sex or maybe my pussy is loose in missionary? Maybe his penis isn't getting enough stimulation in missionary? I do kegels and I'm only 19, but maybe it's because my pussy isn't that great? Or maybe I'm making a big deal out of it for no reason? Is doggy usually better for most guys than missionary? Could it possibly be me or my vagina?
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  • Hey girl, I'm a butt guy and I'm married to a girl who has a sexy behind. So I know...

    1) it not you or your vagina. So be cool. You're good... perhaps too good for him 😁

    2) the vagina can adjust to the penis. So missionary and cowgirl are good too. He's just spoilt (LOL).

    3) he's definitely visual. And in sure you have a great behind. So chill. Flaunt and don't worry. You're already his Goddess and he your worshipper.

    4) suggestion: learn to off your butt to him outside the bedroom too. Yes, it's all about that gorgeous behind.

    Perhaps play naughty, spank him while in the shopping centre and allow him to do likewise.

    It'll stimulate him so that he accepts other intimate positions in the bedroom.

    To conlclude: you're good and definitely not the problem. He needs to learn to relax and enjoy other positions. And both need to be creative and gi to another level in you sex adventure.

  • He may prefer doggy position for several reasons. It gives a guy maximum control. It allow for deep penetration and, for some guys, deep penetration is more arousing than shallow penetration in a tighter pussy. It may be that he enjoys looking at your ass while he is fucking you. Maybe he is fantasizing about having anal sex with you. Maybe he doesn't want to see your face because he is fantasizing about someone else when he is fucking you.

    You think he doesn't want to look at your face; does he refuse to kiss you? Are there other problems in the relationship? Recurring arguments about silly things?

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  • You’re thinking about it a little too much—it’s just his favorite style and is a preferred style of many because of the angles and depth

  • The Rare Truth About "Tight" and "Loose" Women ↗

    It's not you, or your vagina.
    But keep up your Kegels.

    • I do those sometimes.. but could he just not be getting enough stimulation in missionary? He has been able to cum in that position but I know its not what he prefers. And I cannot make him cum by riding him no matter how hard I try so some looseness or weakness in my vagina seems likely. The only position with me that can make him cum good is doggy..

    • There is absolutely NO reason to believe your vagina is loose. If you were having chldren at age 38, I might buy that. But sex doesn't make your vagina loose. Your vagina is not loose. Get that anti-scientific nonsense out of your head.

    • Maybe he doesn't like looking at my face in missionary then. I don't know. But he used to cum in that position a lot and now he prefers doggy and I can't make him cum while riding him either..

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  • He's probably just an ass guy. Chill.

    • And I cannot make him cum by riding him at all no matter how hard I try. I must have bad pussy..

  • I wouldn’t put much worry into to it, just enjoy it. He probably likes to see your bum anyway and could just be more comfortable

    Too many variables

  • He's having fun. I don't suppose it's anything to do with you. It's just the way he likes it. It may be that he feels a bit self conscious when missionary.

  • You’re thinking too much about it. It more than likely has nothing to do with how loose or tight you are. For me, I almost always start with my girlfriend in missionary but end up in other positions. My favorite is cowgirl. That’s just what I like and I think it’s the same way with your boyfriend

    • I cannot make my boyfriend cum by riding him. Maybe I'm too loose. He seems to enjoy it and tells me I'm good at it, but we've been together for 3 years and I still cannot make him cum by riding him.. I honestly do think it's my pussy. It's easy for other girls to make guys cum by riding. So obviously it's me.

  • If he is cut it might also be the reduction of his sensitivity.

  • I think you are just overthinking it might be that in doggie you moan louder or something or maybe he is an ass guy and likes the view? Ask him if he wants to try some anal play if you're into it

  • It’s because missionary is boring

  • Doggy is a good position to cum in. I prefer missionary now but I remember a time that I prefferd doggy because of the hard pounding while cuming. I'm sure it's just a phase. It doesn't have anything to do with your pussy. Doggy doesn't make it any tighter in my opinion

  • he has less skill to make him cum.

  • I would prefer the same position.

  • I think you could just be overthinking things, and you could just change positions during sex to your favorite and his at some point too so you overall you both get to pleasure each other in each others favorite ways, mutual pleasure is the whole point of sex and the best way to have sex. Plenty of great people out there get that and strive for mutual pleasure in sex so if he has a problem with it screw him and find someone better.

  • Probably nothing wrong with your pussy or you need to talk it over with him and see what his problem is

  • He likes dominating you as he cums inside.
    The vagina is a muscle and elastic so your not loose. It might just feel different for him that way. Do you ever do other positions?

    Have you talked to him about it or asked if he can cum inside you in another position? Sex is about communication and you feel that way cause you view it differently. Also squeeze him inside of you and see how he likes you tight.

    Does he still kiss you? Are the lights out? Look for hints that he finds you ugly.

    • Also he might just be in that habbit now.

  • He must enjoy looking at your butthole while he fucks your pussy. He is probably imagining you on a toilet taking a big shit. And he can’t fathom that poop comes out of your butthole

    • Lol. Thanks for the laugh. But that's gross. I know that's not what's going on in his head. 😂

    • I would bet my money that he is. Do you let him lick your dirty butthole clean? When did he last fuck your pussy?

  • Be patient and find out lol

  • Nope, most guys actually prefer Cowgirl position.

    • I can't make him cum at all while riding him. So I guess I gave bad pussy. :(

    • *have

    • Maybe you just need to practice more.

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