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Sexual Health He refuses to wear a condom but says he's clean?
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I want to believe him when he says he's clean because he said he would never do that but he refuses to wear a condom. He made up this whole story about how using a condom once screwed him so he uses the pull out method and never fails. And then he literally said that he won't have sex if I insist on him using a condom... is he lying about being clean Or does he genuinely just not like condoms?
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27 26Guys will lie as needed to get sex the way they want.
If it 'takes', a baby will hamstring you, make you give it up in adoption or make you kill it. 3 bad choices to you for his little con game. Advice?
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Uh no you put your foot down and tell him he isn't getting absolutely anything unless HE wears a condom.
Or you get him to go get checked, get yourself checked too and go on some birth control.
Regardless don't take chances, why's he (sort of) blackmailing, dosent sound like a top guy TBH, tell him no condom no sex, simple
Hm i say make him wear a condom if you two decide to have sex. If he doesn't respect that don't have sex with him. Because he's so persistent about it i feel like he's not clean but if want to have sex without a condom get tested and again 6 months later. Whatever you decide to do be smart about your decision. Good luck
Only you can make the decision not to use condoms. It's both of you of course, but he is in one camp and you another. I would believe him when he says he hates condoms as most men do but if he is taking this stance what the likely culprit is he can't perform when wearing one. This is super common. Sex is safer cause there isn't any! If he is like me, and we apply the 80/20 rule I feel maybe 20% of what's going on during sex with a condom. I'd rather go to the doc and get tested again and show her the paper than use condoms at this point in my life. He does want sex, but sex isn't worth it to go through the drill of losing wood and embarrassment in front of you. So, either you are cool with this or you're not. If you're not he prepared to walk from what it sounds like. Is that pressure? While it does prob put pressure on you it's likely not his intent. He just has no interest in sex with condoms. If you aren't cool then walk and he will find another and so will you...
don't sleep with him till you go get tested together. its not mistrust its safety for the both of you and your futures.
He's a guy, what do your instincts tell you?
i still wouldn´t take a chance if i was you. i believe him that he dislikes it, cause it feels bad but you never know.
dont have sex with him.
i can't imagine a guy agreeing to get tested
condoms don't feel as pleasurable and he might not be able to stay erect with one on.
however the pull out method does not work because of ejaculate that slowly eventually works its way out during sex. and you can get pregnant from that.
also if he's insisting not to use a condom ask him to get tested, just to alleviate your worries.
He just hates the rubber
Don't have sex with him.
U just take pills.. don't tell him
that way u will be safe at least
how exactly is she safe from STD's
No glove, no love.
If he doesn't like it, then he gets no sex. Simple as that.
he is using you
It's complicated, you must get him checked
make him show you a lab test
Get check he might be lying to you
Then don't have sex with him, if he can't respect what you want move on