He's been trying for a long time?

[Anonymous]

So this dude has been INSISTING on me having sex with him or doing oral. LIKE he's been trying for a year. I have whisper, tinder and dating apps and we match. He's always reaching out to me no matter how many times I've blocked him.

I told him there's other girls out there that wanna have sex, but he said he knows and wants me? I don't know what the fuck is going on? Lol can you men please provide me with some input cause I'm clueless.

[NyceGuyFinishingLast]

There is something about you that jump starts his mojo. I have been there a few times where I was very infatuated with a girl and would have done anything to have consensual sex. But, I am also respectful of the lady's decision. No means no.

Word to the wise, everything you posted seems like a huge red flag. You have made it abundantly clear that you aren't interested in him. But, yet he keeps trying and even after being blocked he finds a way through. If you know the exact reason then tell him that instead of using a deflect saying there are a lot of women looking for sex. Just try to be as direct with him as possible and see if that puts a stone in his path. By not being direct and deflecting you are putting on a display of what he sees as playing hard to get. Kinda like the only way to get a dog's attention is to pop them right on the snout.

Be very careful because this guy might be one that will not take NO for an answer and you may need to seek help from the authorities.

[Asker]

I have told him no. But he doesn't take no for an answer. It's always in the morning or at night. Never throughout the day. I have given him multiple reasons and was straight forward.

[NyceGuyFinishingLast]

I don't know what else you can do unless you want to threaten him with law enforcement. You just need to watch yourself, this guy could be dangerous. You can report people on the apps and they can disband his account. I know that would only stop him for a short time but you need proof that you have done all that you can if you need to sought out legal help.

[Asker]

I blocked him, he doesn't know where I live but I will be careful. He's harmless. I was just stupid to think he actually liked me.. whenever a guy talks to me it's always about sex or nudes and no one ever gets to know me. I'm not even attractive.

[NyceGuyFinishingLast]

I find that hard to believe. You seem to be on a few apps so you must hold yourself to some bracket of beauty. I bet you are drop dead gorgeous if this guy is after you.

[Asker]

I'm really not lol.. I just think he's desperate for sex and is willing to do anything for it. I'm too chubby and ugly to be gorgeous lol

[NyceGuyFinishingLast]

Pffttt says the pretty and beautiful girl.

[Asker]

Lol 😆 I don't know.

[NyceGuyFinishingLast]

Next time include a pic so I can prove you wrong.

[Asker]

Trust me you'd be agreeing with me

[NyceGuyFinishingLast]

I guess we will never know.

[NyceGuyFinishingLast]

Could be that he is into chubby girls. You are right he might only be after sex but that might be because he is attracted to chubby girls. A lot of guys are but don't want to be caught with a chubby girl. So these app allow them to discreetly hook up with chubby girls.

[NyceGuyFinishingLast]

But good for you to stick to your guns and only go after what you want.

[exitseven]

Maybe you are not looking at this the right way. How many other guys have been this persistent? Maybe you should give him a break. He might surprise you.

[Asker]

I haven't had someone try this hard tbh lol

[exitseven]

there you go.

[Asker]

Please explain lol

[exitseven]

"There you go" is an expression older people use. It means "thats great" or something like that.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO

[slatyb]

Why do you keep responding? He asked, you answered. You don't owe him any more than that. Just ignore him and he'll get bored and go away.

[boggboss]

He wants you because u are resistant to it people want what they can't have

[Asker]

I don't know why though that's strange lol

[boggboss]

No its not many people want something or are attracted to something they can't have its the raw bases for chasing after a women

[Asker]

Oh I see. Then what happens when they get the woman?

[boggboss]

If they only cared about the chase they have had there fun time to move on it dont mean they want to be with her

[Asker]

Ohh I see.

[eatingyou247]

maybe he knows you and is having some kind of fun with it , a co worker, friend, bully, some girl you upset and she is cat fishing you maybe a older pervert. Maybe shut your profiles down for a while and let it go away then start new ones later.

[Browneye57]

He's just trying to wear you down. Some girls go for that - they think they're something special, and he's special, so they break down and do it. Just tell him to fuck off.

[es20490446e]

Simple: do you like the guy?

[Wiredone]

He is really interested in you especially if you are a match for him. You have to give him credit for his determination. There has to be something about you that he keeps trying to be with you.

[Asker]

He just wants sex. He never asks how I'm doing, I've never seen someone try so hard lol

[Wiredone]

Maybe the site you are on is for hooking up so he is thinking that's what you want.

[TheBigGuy9]

Some guys don’t get the hint and that’s scary that he still contacts you after you blocked him. I’m assuming he created new names and messages you? I’d report him first. Document everything and report him, while simultaneously have a male friend take care of it.
He has to be strong and convincing, but not over the top. A lot of these guys are snakes and will do anything to hurt you.

[JustMe62]

Not sure what he is up to, but it sounds fishy to me. Stay strong with your no. Maybe call the cops?

[CubaPirate]

Keep on blocking or ghosting him he'll get the message eventually I hope

[JesseJayNeak]

He's desperate

[Asker]

Very

[goodvibes4life247]

Sound like a stocker

[Anonymous]

Are you thinking about fucking him?