He said he'd stop dating me if I lose my virginity to some guys should I dump him?

[Anonymous]

[Valnac]

It’s your body, and he has no right demanding anything of you.
I say kick him to the curb, and move on down the road.

[gandolph3]

Dump him fast

[wassim97]

I think you didn’t understand what he meant if you are dating him and him alone why you will lose your virginity to someone else

[Asker]

well we are poly why is he jealous?

[Berethor]

When he agreed to poly relationship, he likely agreed only for you being with other girls.

tvtropes.org/.../GirlOnGirlIsHot

[Berethor]

He don't want to date a slut, makes sense.

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MyGirlIsNotASlut

[Asker]

lol we are in polyamorous we are not committed yet. he fucks different woman

[Berethor]

I see but even so, men tend to be more territorial than women, it's an instinct, but that said I am not sure if he "just" want to be your first, your he want you to stay loyal to him after that as well.

tvtropes.org/.../NatureAdoresAVirgin

[Andreapuss]

It depends. If you want to give your virginity to a group of guys instead of him, go ahead and do it. Forget him. Get your pay destroyed x

[Andreapuss]

Pussy*

[Mikelaughs]

I understand that you two have an agreement, being polyamorous.
It really requires effort on both sides to make it work.
Hmu if you want to discuss

[Citizenkirk]

I'm confused. Do the two of you share a monogamous relationship? If so, did he start dating you because he thought you are a virgin, if so, dump him. Does he think he can see other women while demanding you remain monogamously faithful too him? If so, take a dump on his face while dumping him.

[Bandit74]

If he's currently dating you and you're considering losing your virginity yo someone other than him then it's probably best for the both of you if you break up.

[Twalli]

So he'll break up with bv you us you cheat, makes sense

[Asker]

I'm not a cheater. We are poly. We are not committed yet.

[Twalli]

Regardless, he doesn't want anyone else to have sex with you before him.

[Dave31989]

Nope

[kiwiguy2022]

Na just do what you want

[Anonymous]

No, if you going to cheat on him; he should be the one to leave you.

[Anonymous]

Well I would dump you first if you did that if you are dating me, maybe he should just be your first before that happens

[Anonymous]

You seeing anyone else besides him?

[Asker]

nope

[Opinion Owner]

Then you have nothing to worry about, it's not like you hookup with random guys. All he mean to say, if you cheat on him it's over.

[Asker]

we are polyamorous