He said he love sex?

Help!. He said he love sex? what does it mean? does he have sex with someone else if I’m not available for a week? were not in a relationship but wanna spend more time with me, mainly sex less talk. im so bothered when he tells me what things that he loves and he include that😢
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  • Ok, you're making a very classic mistake.

    He said he love sex?

    Women are the gatekeepers of sex (and it's good that they are, and they wouldn't want that to be any other way). But this means that if you fail to be a good gatekeeper, you put your own emotions at risk.

    I have no problem if a woman wants to have a Friends-With-Benefits, but women need to understand that friends with benefits is NOT a stop on the way to a relationship - it's actually moving in the opposite direction (in most cases). What that means is: if you choose to be friends with benefits with someone, you are giving away all of your leverage to convince the guy to commit to a real relationship with you. Unless the guy is madly in love with you, being friends with benefits is the ideal situation for him to be in: he gets sex, and he gets some female companionship (if he wants it) without any commitments or expectations. Now, that's great for women IF the women are also only looking for casual sex, but far too many women aren't honest with themselves about how they feel about a guy and what they want from him, OR they're not honest about the fact that sex makes them fall in love with their sex partner, even if they don't want to or intend to.

    If you don't want to put yourself in this situation - where you have nearly zero leverage to convince the guy to give you a real relationship - you need to follow this rule:

    If you think there's any chance that you might EVER want a real, romantic relationship with a guy, you CANNOT have sex with him until you have committed to being in a relationship with each other. You absolutely cannot be friends with benefits first, because 98% of the time, that's the most you'll ever be, and as soon as you push for a relationship, the guy will just move on.

    If you're SURE you never want a serious relationship with a guy, then do whatever you like, but it's important to understand that you only get ONE CHANCE to get it right, and you have to get it right from the beginning. Once a guy has casual sex from you, your leverage with him is gone, forever (in the vast majority of cases).

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  • So you want more of a relationship and less friends with benefits?

    • Yeah

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  • OK we should really roll this back a little bit and take things one by one. First off are you in a committed relationship with this person?

    • No, I want to he knows that I want.. he said before he’s not fucking around, and not sleeping around. i ask him both because he’s literal sometimes

    • OK so what do you want to come up this relationship, and would you go as far as to say that you love him?

    • I think he knows that I love him already, and he told me before my feeling for you will never change for sure

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  • Its possible yes which u can't really get upset about lol

    • Can I talk to him about that? message him?

    • U can if u want but if your not together u can't really get upset over it

    • Yeah he just get upset if I don’t text back and ask me twice about for reassurance

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