He said he’s bored being my Sex Ed teacher. Are most guys bored of virgins?

We were sexting, and it became clear I was very shy, scaredish, reticent and maybe ignorant when it comes to sex.
At some point he said he was kinda bored of being my Sex-Ed teacher (at first I thought he was just teasing).
Then he sends me a text saying he wasn’t attracted to my inexperience and we shouldn’t take the relationship further. Is this a common sentiment amongst guys?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I see two possibilities-

    1. He's a complete asshole who bails when anything requires actual work.
    2. He's a decent person whose morals are conflicting with his desires. If he doesn't see himself with you long-term, so perhaps he feels that he's corrupting you? (I was in that situation a couple of times, it's a real moral conflict)

    • Thank you for your perspective, could very well be the second option.

    • Yeah, if he was apologetic and seemingly sincere when he said it, then it's likely #2.

  • No. Most guys enjoy sexting a willing woman. If she is not experienced, they often find that more interesting. If you are holding back, that may cause a guy to become bored, but as long as you are interested in sexting with him he should enjoy sexting with you.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I don't think so
    Me and my boyfriend loved learning sex together

    • Based on what he’s told me, he’s been hyper-sexual with his exes. Kinky stuff and all that. Maybe that’s why he’s finding my shyness boring? We also had a disagreement before that, maybe he just wants to end things and is throwing an excuse.

    • Maybe I'm sorry to hear that Me and my by are pretty kinky now too we loved getting to know each others kinks and stuff

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  • A teacher trying to cultivate a relationship with a current student is a virtually universally prohibited activity.

    No, I don't think that most guys would respond that way, unless they were just looking for a relatively quick roll in the hay.

  • He probably just wants to be a bit more physical and have you step your sexting game. It can be done if you're interested. Otherwise, because he is putting a lot of emphasis on this, he might consider breaking up but don't know for sure.

  • Some guys are not turned on my it and genuinely don't enjoy having to go through teaching someone about sex I know I personally wouldn't want a virgin for a partner

  • Most but not all guys find inexperience hot. Note how often in porn they're pretending its the girls 'first time' doing xyz.

    Most but not all guys find reticence or lack of enthusiasm/interest/responsiveness a turn off.

    • It’s not that I didn’t want to, it’s just that I was kinda nervous so I would send something naughty then backtrack in shyness. I think he eventually got frustrated... don’t blame him

    • A fair number of guys would find that kind of exciting, i think, more than frustrating, but it depends a little on how much he's driven by imagination, and whether he views sexual stuff more as a 'now we get ourselves off' or enjoys the psychological dynamics, and how focused he is on your mental state.

  • Virgins are pretty boring, yeah...

  • i don't think that your "lack of experience" is the real problem. i think it's more likely, that he wants you to be a bit more outgoing and "slutty" when you're with him. causue experience usually just comes with time. but those things don't and i see how that may bother someone, not the "lack of experience".

  • The last time I dated a virgin was about 12 years ago. That was enough to last me for quite a while.

  • You will have no problem finding another guy to replace him, so focus on that and forget about him.

  • depends of the guys.

  • I'm sorry, but he sounds like a douchebag.

  • Not all guys are like that. I personally really enjoy helping people learn cause in my opinion it’s really important to learn these things.

  • if it is "all talk" and no action? YES

  • Guys are perverted by nature. If they see a girl is green they just don't want to put in the effort. Some but not all. he's not worth your time.

  • No I don't

  • I want to be your teacher

  • So fuck a few guys, and then come back to him.

  • My girlfriend was a virgin too
    I didn't mind teaching her what I knew