He said that I’m his slut? good or bad?

[Anonymous]

We’re just texting, not having sex when he said “and you’re still my slut”
Don’t know if that is a good or bad thing

[DaveJord]

Well if you do not know for yourself I am not sure if I can help you, I mean to say if you were not a slut one would thing you would be offended... but maybe you're a slut and you're good with that?

Webster says its OFFENSIVE meaning a women that has causal sex with partners... meaning multiple partners. So when a guy calls you a slut or says you are his slut... that would mean you are on of various women he is banging, or he is one of various men you are banging.

slut
noun

1.
OFFENSIVE
a woman who has many casual sexual partners.

So are you slut or not? It all depends of the answer to this question if you should be offended or not.

[Gremlinimo]

Like some of the girls have said... he may mean it in a sexual, flirty context... you can't see if he's smiling or making sexy eyes at you when the conversation is over text message.

[kylee2437]

That’s a boundary you can only say if it’s good or bad, because if a guy I have a genuine connection said that to me , I would be talking dirty right back to him, but if you aren’t a fan you should really let him know.

[Mortdikeuu]

If you know what I know about abusive men. You wouldn't be asking the question

[Daniela1982]

Depends on how you view yourself. You know some guys love sluts in bed and some girls like being that slut in bed.

[OlderAndWiser]

He's been watching WAY too much porn!

[CA4444]

I have the same issue lol 😂 I find it very confusing

[jlee99]

Depends on the context in which he said that

[Sandeeppingping]

You remind me of an actress, like a lot, I can't remember her name or which movie she's been in though

[Dargil]

That is unforgivably degrading. Get rid of him unless you are demented.

[FilmGuy93]

That's usually a good thing

[genericname85]

if he calls you that without ever being sexual with him, that's a bit weird.

[Adronicus]

Sounds like a pickup artist tactic, negging / emotional manipulation.

[britishbby]

Depends on if ur dating or hooking up or just being a slut (please head my way ;)) but either way it's sorta down to you, we need more context on what u want and what you two are

[Asker]

We’re seeing each other, we’ve gone on dates, gone to the gym together, hangout w our friends together, and then we fool around and have sex too We’re only a couple months in so we haven’t defined what we are

[britishbby]

I think he was testing the waters for what dirty talk he can do, I wouldn't worry to much it's early stages just maybe hint or make it clear what you want from the both of u

[Arichip]

Usually a good thing if you guys are boyfriend/girlfriend

[Mart10]

That's bad

[Zolly99999]

Bad. He sounds like a douche

[EnglishEuropean]

That's really for you to decide. If you don't enjoy being called a slut I guess it's bad.

[OnTheLevel]

It depends how he meant it. If he meant it as an insult, it's bad. If he said it thinking it turns you on, not bad at all.

[Pedodad82]

It's pretty bad

[Anonymous]

It's extremely good

[Anonymous]

Sounds good