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9 mo

He says he wants a relationship but we only go to hotels?

I’ve been seeing this guy for about 3 months. He tells me eveyday how much he loves me and wants a relationship with me and how I should be loyal to him as he is to me and how he’s so into me and likes me so so much. But we only ever go to hotels? Like we haven’t been in a date in a month we have just been chilling sleeping together? When I try to leave though he gets so worked up and scared and spams down my phone so I don’t get it? He says I’m really good in bed and the best he’s had so I’m worried that this is the reason he is keeping me around? Any thoughts? He sends me paragraphs every day though and buys me gifts so I just don’t get it.

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Superb Opinion

  • So first of all, I don't think that this guy really loves you.

    The reason I'm pretty convinced of this is because he doesn't spend much time with you, at all.

    If a guy is really serious about forming a deep relationship with you, he'll spend a lot of time with you, so that he can get to know you really well and like you for who you are -- for that what makes you you uniquely you.

    A guy can't love a girl if he doesn't know much about her. And if this guy really loved you, he'd be spending all this time with you, because he couldn't be happier anywhere else than being with you.

    When this guy tells you that he loves you, he's lying to you. Why? Because there's no way he could know you well enough to have any real feelings for you.

    This guy puts his own self gratification first, before your feelings. He isn't looking for anything deep, he just wants sex. And he buys you those gifts so you won't leave him. He doesn't buy you those gifts because he loves you -- he buys them so you won't leave him and he can always count on using your body to relieve himself and get sex whenever he wants it. And since he's so selfish and only cares about the sex he gets, he doesn't care if he hurts your feelings in getting it.

    I would dump this asshole immediately, and not give him another thought.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Sounds like he only wants a sexual relationship. It seems like he has no intention of going farther than that.

    • It’s a bit narcissistic though that he’s saying he wants a relationship and forcing me not to speak to people

    • @asker Blame him all you want, but you are the one agreeing to it.

    • Well, you know the truth going in so can’t complain when you’re number 3 etc.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Either his place is a pigsty, or he is hiding something from you, or he is simply keeping you around for the sex.

    Step back for a while and see what happens. Stay away from the hotels for a bit.

    As for personal experience I was with a guy who I thought I was in love with, but after a couple months he told me that I needed to put in more effort while we were having sex. I was doing the best I could, but in the end he simply dumped me.

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  • What don't you get? You are his free 🥧 pie. He will say ANYTHING to keep it. Simple enough?

  • He wants to relationship with your pussy
    Not with u... stay away from wierdo

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