He says I’m like his sister but he’s also sexual with me?

[Anonymous]

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Make it make sense?

[ChrisMaster69]

Yeah, he’s saying how emotionally close you are.

im pretty sure he does not think of you as his sister when being sexual.

I have friends where we are like that and share tell each other everything, but have in past jumped each other’s bones.

[Asker]

So friends with benefits?

[ChrisMaster69]

Basically, but very much FRIENDS with benefits by sound of it

[BarryLiverstone]

No, if he’s sexual then he can’t see you as his sister.

[BarryLiverstone]

How is he sexual?

[Asker]

He’s tried to make a move on me and we’ve done it a couple of times

[BarryLiverstone]

If you have had sex then you can’t be seen as his sister

[Asker]

I’ve got a feeling he just wants me for an easy fuck

[BarryLiverstone]

Sounds like that’s already happened. Did you at least orgasm?

[Asker]

No, but he’s lasted longer than any of my previous encounters :p

[BarryLiverstone]

Oh that sux, why couldn’t you cum? Was he bad at oral?

[Asker]

I’m guessing he just doesn’t know his way around my body like he does his (previous) girlfriends? Or maybe he doesn’t try too hard with me?

[BarryLiverstone]

He didn’t try too hard, he was selfish. Now I get it

[Asker]

That just sucks, thinking about it now

[BarryLiverstone]

Sorry, just being logical. You are right, emotionally he was very sucky

[bzcxx]

honestly this just sounds like an excuse not to date you - he probably just wants sex like all guys do but he doesn't want to get serious with you. that's just my opinion, take it for what it's worth.

[spartan55]

Seriously, where do you girls find, these clowns? You chose him, and you teach him how to treat you.

[Leavesbound]

He may have incestuous fantasies.

[kkirk4442]

He sees you differently than he does his sister, simply because he is sexual with you.

[Wowie101]

Ummmmmm... well u said it?

[BillHe1]

Then tell him you're his sister, and you need him to show you how a brother would slowly and lovingly teach his sister how to have Great Sex...

Forget the brother and sister shit... just grab him and start tearing off his clothes. Grab his dick in your hands and stick in front of your pussy... now it's up to him. I bet he DOESN'T STOP.

[TheSpaceGnome]

possibility 1. he is into incest.

possibility 2. he is using "sister" labels as a way to refuse to admit he likes you because he is afraid it will scare you off if he is too forward, which is a really odd form of denial if he's already being sexual with you.

possibility 3. he's not connecting the 2, and he wants a sibling and a girlfriend and there aren't 2 people so he is settling for you filling both roles while compartmentalizing it in his brain as if you were 2 different people.

possibility 4. he was making a reference that your habits toward him remind him of how his actual sister acts, or how he thinks a sister would act, and maybe he wants you to act less like that and more like a girlfriend.

Possibility 5. is the same as possibility 4. but he likes when you act like that, and is merely referencing that his sister also acted like that, and it's just not a sexual thing for him, rather like saying, "yeah, my friend did that too".

[OfDeath]

Freud would have a field day with that. I'm not him, yes that's pretty weird.

[JackofSpades]

I'm guessing he doesn't actually have a sister.

Those of us who didn't grow up with sisters or a lot of female friends tend to misuse this analogy whenever we meet a girl we aren't nervous around or feel like you have to impress.

She's just like one of the bros but she's a chick. This must be like what having a sister is like.

It's probably a lot less gross in his head.

[JackofSpades]

God damnit. *We have to impress

[Asker]

What’s the difference?

[fred_durst]

many people actually love incest , because it is forbidden