He says it’s too tight, what do I do?

Hi! I want to know any suggestions. Sometimes he hurts me and he says I’m too tight and hurt him? Moisture/wetness is all the way there but it’s like I don’t know 🤷 I have had kids, and I don’t want to be loose either (lol) what can I do if wetness (ocean.. lol just kidding) is there but still I’m hurting him? And has anyone else ever experienced this problem?

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  • Maybe date someone who isn't such an entitled asshole that he is actually complaining that your vagina is too tight?

    It's like those assholes who have too much money; for most people seeing a deer up close is a beautiful and magical experience that they treasure but if you have a lot of money and therefore live in the countryside with a big garden your perception of deer becomes 'deer are vermin who come into my garden and eat my plants'.

    The solution to both problems is the same, go and throw yourself off beachy head while fucking yourself with an iron bar.

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  • My immediate question would be if there’s enough foreplay. Some men don’t take the time beforehand and just think wet= ready to go. We will naturally produce that without much stimulation at all. So if your walls are vice-tight, that usually means you’re not quite ready. But another suggestion is going and getting that checked out. I forgot what sort of doctor my friend went to, but basically she was experiencing so much pain from sex, even “smaller” sizes lol. Ultimately it had something to do with how low her cervix sits compared to normal, but she would’ve never known.

    • We do have four play But sometimes it’s like vice grips Lol Even wet. My midwife at one point had a hard time checking me during pregnancy even with the lube😩😒 I’m going to go back and see Thank you

  • I hate it but mine is tight too. It helps to get lube and play with yourself a little so the muscles can loosen up a bit. Make sure you feel relaxed and not tense!

    • Ok Thank you

Most Helpful Guy

  • I have a few times with my wife!

    It is your muscles that are strong down there which is good but it will help stretching and relaxing with a dildo!

    Start slow and work your way up to just over this size! So you can take him and him not worry about it!

    You won't be loose and will be tight still but not overly tight.

    My wife after her 2nd baby qorskes so long and hard on her muscles that we had to take a few weeks of her relaxing stretching and getting her muscles the right shape to allow me in!

    She was so soaked but all I could do with grind her clit on my tip for a while.

    • Wow Ok I will try Thanks

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  • My frenulum (the little thing that attaches the foreskin to the penis) tore once, when I was much younger. Now, vigorous sex can easily lead to the same place suddenly hurting.

    Trying different positions and angles helps. If my penis is more towards the front of her vagina, there's less friction on the sensitive spot. In missionary that means her hips and legs back by her shoulders. In doggy I need to be flat on my feet pounding down into her. Or piledriving facing each other

  • Have you tried using some lube?

  • Maybe try some lube even if u are wet

  • I'm sorry, it's hard to say. Is he really big, so maybe a tight fit? Also is his erection curved in any way? That's actually a condition that can cause pain upon getting hard.

    • He’s a little curved not drastic My body just naturally grips especially during orgasms 😩I’m starting to think that even after having kids and me being wet I may need to start to control my orgasm I guess 🤷idk I guess I need to stop doing kegels lol

    • No, if it's anything it's his penis, not you. A good grip will give pleasure, not pain. Especially since his penis is curved. Check out Peyronie's disease. It's not even a disease, it has to do with how a penis is shaped. There can be pain. He might want to see a doctor.

  • I have pretty tight girls either I was too big or she was too small. Usually we use a lot of lube like baby oil or some kind of sex jelly so I could slide in with out me hurting her and me. Also it took some time and practice so I could slide all the way in and she did some kygel exercises. Also there are sexual positions you can do maybe could help so it doesn’t hurt as much maybe if your flexible or fit enough spread your legs really wide.

  • More lube and he needs to make you cum at least once before going in

  • Try coconut oil. Works wonders

  • You need to relax! Let go a little!

  • Dump him. He doesn’t respect your work.

  • Maybe he's really thick

  • Be proud

  • Lube it up he must be over 7

  • I have the same problem.. its not good. I suggest you see a docotor and she can give you exersices

  • Are you fully relaxing your vaginal muscles? Are you tense down there?

  • Don’t listen to @/writteninthestars or you’d get yeast infection. Try water-based lubes and a vagina dilator if possible