He sent me a pic of his underwear and his hands on his dick and I blocked him, did I overreated?

[Anonymous]

I dont know, because I felt he genuinely liked me and then he sent me a pic out of"irony" and "sarcasm", but I didn't take it lightly, I just thought he was one of these dudes who just wanted to sext basically, I offended him and we had a brief fighy and I blocked him? Did I overreated? Or was it completely fair? And I shouldn't talk to him again? Please tell me! Im internally dying here..

[Roostah]

First give more context into what was being exchange before the dick pics were shown. Perhaps you gave him the wrong signals, or he wanted to escalate the encounter with you so he sent you a dick pic to get you sexually aroused. Yes guys do that. You should probably talk to the guy in person and find out why he did that, and what you mean to him.

[Asker]

We were literally talking about americans and he was a USA underwear and he sent me a pic of it with his hands on his crotch and I was so shocked

[Asker]

He was wearing*

[sexyphil]

I don't think you overreacted at all. I never send dick pics and actually don't even have any. To me that is just gross and unnecessary. If a girl likes me enough to meet up then she will find out soon enough all abut my dick... So no you didn't overreact. There needs to be a bit of mystery in the relationship...

[Anonymous]

Absolutely not. If it wasn't asked for, that's actually something like sexual harassment. I wouldn't say don't ever talk to him again, but if you do be wary. And don't ever take anything like that lightly... by the way there's no such thing as sending the wrong signals when it comes to consent.

[Asker]

THOSE WERE MY EXACT THOUGHTS! CONSENT! I ACTUALLY GOT MAD BECAUSE HE didn't ASK BEFORE SENDING AND NOT THE PICTURE ITSELF! THANK YOU!

[9mfeo]

I would have done the same thing. That's not a cool thing to do, especially since you weren't interested in sexting when that's all he wanted. Better to forget him and move on.

[Asker]

He said he was "kidding" but I was like nahhh get outta here with your bullshit

[Hexxus]

Its actually a pretty cool thing to do. It lets the guy know right away if the girl is interested in the same thing he is with out wasting anyone's time.

[Asker]

@hexxus but then one time I was horny and he didn't want to sext and this other time, he started to be really affectionate and I told him if he was horny, he said and i quote "if i was horny would I really come to a 18 yo online whos being rude to me all the time" then i thought ok maybe he isn't that much intersted in only sexting but then I don't know everything is so confusing i want him out of my life anyways

[9mfeo]

I think you've successfully accomplished that, my love. @Hexxus no one wants to be assaulted with the sight of your gross penis.

[Hexxus]

Some of the women I have slept with would beg to differ

[9mfeo]

@Hexxus unsolicited dick pics are different from seeing it live in real time.

[Hexxus]

I was talking about pictures, not in person as well. But I should have been a little more clear. I don't send random girls dick picks, I calibrate. If im interested in a girl I will turn the conversation sexual early on. If she is receptive then I progress from there. If not I move on to the next girl.

[Anonymous]

Even if he liked you he can't get mad if your not comfortable with seeing his dick. Thats not cool on his part, your good dont worry.

[Hexxus]

You did the right thing. You let him know you are not the right girl for him.

[Asker]

Thanks

[linkywinky]

You overreacted a little bit. You should tell him you didn't appreciate that, even if it was sent as a way to jest with you.

[zorro8888]

Well if you didn't like seeing it then it's not an overreaction, just move on I suppose.

[Asker]

Everybody says "move on" as if its an easy thing to do lol well yeah im trying

[Not_Helping]

You're internally dying for the D? This makes sense.

[Asker]

No I blocked the guy I actually liked very much for that, Im wondering was that the right thing to do or I just over dramatised

[Not_Helping]

Do you want the D? If you want the D it was an overreaction. If you don't want the D it was okay.

[Asker]

If I wanted the dick man I wouldn't have blocked him dont be stupid

[Not_Helping]

You said you liked him. It seems you no longer do. Then you win. Congratulations on your choices.

[JohnStamoist]

So did you friend zone the guy?

[MannBaer]

You did it right, showing that you didn't like such things, maybe next time he thinks twice before doing something like that.

[Anonymous]

you didn't over react.

[Asker]

Thank youuu