He took my virginity but still hasn't spoken to me?

Okay so I have been talking to this guy for 2 months now and I let him take my virginity ( I know short period of time but I don't care). When we first started talking he was the one that tried so hard to talk to me, came up to me and asked for my number, I had always noticed he kept looking at me in class. He's 20 and I'm 18. So one day he came over and we had sex. He was very nice about it saying he didn't want to hurt me and asked if I was okay afterwards. I would also like to add that we had sex for like 45 mins and at one point he went soft and he didn't cum. I'm not sure if it was because of nerves or me. It's just weird because it sounded like he liked it. But after we had sex it was very awkward he would not look me in the eye when we were talking. When he left he said he would text me but after two days went by he didn't so I decided to text him. I basically told him if you don't want to talk to me anymore than just say that and he says " I didn't say that I don't". I said " well you're acting like it it" and he read the message and didn't respond which is also weird because he always responds. Well it's been a week and I still haven't gotten a text from him. I don't want a relationship or anything but I would like him to come over again. So could someone explain why he is acting this way, because this is very confusing that he wants to be an asshole now.
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I finally shot him a text and we are on good terms. I guess you guys were right, thanks.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You weren't supportive/comforting when he went soft and let it be awkward which was what he was embarrassed about first. Then instead of realizing why he was mad you sounded confrontational and we're giving ultimatums in your texts.

    The first thing you should take away is, yup, we pull the same "chase me, hold me, read my mind bullshit you do ;p

    The second is that sex doesn't end after orgasm, especially when 1 or more are virgins or inexperienced

    The third is to be an attentive and empathetic lover

    • Okay I could understand why he's acting this way

  • He just wanted to get in, get off, and get out.

    As for afterwards he didn't want to get into an argument and possibly wanted to not end it in case he wanted to come back some time later.

    Sorry about that.

Most Helpful Girl

  • That's why I'm scared to lose my virginity. Never know when guys are playing. They're good at hiding it

    • Yes I'm telling you please don't just do it to get it over with because when the guy doesn't talk to you after you feel awful.

    • Funny you said that. I was recently talking to my friend and telling him how I want to hurry and lose it lol. Weird much

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  • He is probably ashamed he went soft. Just go talk to him in person. If this is something you want to do again, tell him. Sex is something you get better at with practice.

  • I would guess he's mortified about losing his hard on.