He took my virginity then blocked me?

He told me he wanted to be exclusive. He made it seem like we’re in a relationship. He even said he didn’t want to have sex yet because he “didn’t want the relationship to be all about sex , as that usually ends up happening if u have sex too soon”.

then after I gave him a bj he said it was the best he ever had and that he changed his mind and wanted sex now. I told him no then the next day he texted me saying he wanted me bad and he usually drove 40 minutes to me so I agreed to have sex when he came over. He took my virginity than after told me weren’t in a relationship yet. That were in the talking phase still , that we never made it official even tho he called it a relationship b4. He told me He didn’t want me sexting or even talking to other guys but we weren’t dating yet. And he just didn’t want to rush into a relationship yet. Then the next day he ghosted me. Blocked me on snap and saved all my nudes and videos.
I was dumb and got played but I just don’t want him to have my nudes. What do I do? also I was thinking of keying his car 🤔 he said he didn’t want just sex or friends with benefits and doesn’t do that and he straight up lied about his age (I looked him up.
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  • He took advantage of you yes that's a dirty trick but not a reason to perform criminal damage to his car. If your caught then your in the wrong and potentially in trouble and get a rep for being a crazy bitch when relationships don't go your way where as he is just morraly wrong and just maintains a rep as a player.

    If you really want to get your own back tell him you think you caught a STD and he should get himself checked... or if your really wanting to screw with him get him to meet up with you again get him tied up and blindfolded then snap some pics in an embarrassing situation for him

    • He ghosted me bruh I can’t get him to meet up w me

    • then go old school and let others know about him. imbelish about his lack of bedroom skills, downplay his size, ellude to possibly getting a std, bring up you thought he got you preg and then he ghosted you. these will kill a lot of his player moves fast.

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  • You got played. Chalk it up to experience and move on. Next time you'll know some warning signs of a player. You can't do anything about the nudes, but if you key his car he may try to get even and share them.

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  • This happened to me, but he wanted to be friends with benefits and didn’t end up blocking me. I was shocked reading this, because it reminded me of him. He took my virginity too. You’re going to hurt for a while. It’s going to take time. I am still hurt, so I feel your pain. He was an asshole. Don’t get revenge by keying his car because 1. What is that going to solve? 2. If anything, egg his car or house. If that makes you feel better. He deserves it. Feel free to PM me if you want to vent. I could share some of my story with you ahha. Guys are fucking bitches sometimes.

  • If he’s over age and you’re under age report him for distribution of child porn and he’ll have his phone inspected. You can also lick a jolly rancher and put it on his car window (it’ll shatter if he tried to remove it) or put fine and chunky glitter in his car and car vents. Instant mashed potato on his front lawn on a rainy day. Bologna on his car on a hot day will remove the paint. Sugar in his gas tank. Should I continue? Lmaoo

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  • He sounds like such an ass !
    There are a few things to think about here.
    Follow me if you want to talk about it

  • Guys can't be c**ts🤷🏻‍♀️

    • Can be

  • Keying his car will not solve anything, only open you to possibly getting arrested for criminal damage. Is he worth that?
    He played you. He's a jerk. Learn a lesson from it and move on

  • he played you smh

    • That is very much evident

    • what you can do from the situation is learn from it, be more cautious

    • I’m doing all that & keying his car

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  • I admit that that guy is a manipulative piece of shit but don't be fucking crazy, don't key his car

    • I’m not. I was just mad. I said it out of anger. I’m just going to paint him car lol

    • Ya, cause that's so much better🙄

    • Literally stfu bologna on his car on a hot day will get rid of the paint. It’s not that big of a deal. Bye.

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  • He has them you can't prevent that retroactively

  • Sounds like Chris Hansen should have been there.

  • What a. Asshole

  • live and learn... you got played... he has the nudes he will share them or whatever... live a and learn...

    • I told them to delete them. He said he did. Hopefully he ain’t lying

  • where does he live?

    • 961 Lily Springs Rd, Grenville, Pa 17329-9500 Lmaoo

    • Perfect. You might wanna... Um... Anonimize the answer. Accessory to murder and all that shit.

    • Like disavow the question?

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  • Males are only after sex.

  • Fuckk he played u... whyd u give a bj to this guy? I mean take some responsibility u kind of played yourself. Girls u really need to learn from this story and dont put out so fast

    • Cuz I’ve given bj b4 to exes

    • He was the exception and first that I slept w. Nah I didn’t play myself he said we were together stfu

    • Yeah you did play yourself. How long did you guys go out before you slept with him? You’re ruining your life you’d better listen to me before you fuck up again. Dont b a victim take some responsibility for how you can avoid getting played

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  • Key his car.