He uses me for sex?

So me and my boyfriend have been dating for over 3 years. In the beginning our sex life was great he did everything to please me and he was amazing. now, when he's horny he'll just touch and feel me and bents me over to fuck me from behind. He doesn't look at me he just pounds me until he comes. He then throws wipes at me and then goes do something else. Hw has been doing this for the past 4 months i think. I thought maybe he has someone else and just doesn't like me anymore. Or maybe he has found someone else. And if i say I'm not in the mood he gets angry so i end up giving him what he wants. It makes me feel so unwanted and ugly. What do you think is wrong?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Yeah I think it's time to move on hun, you deserve so much better.
    Ask yourself this; is that the sex you want for the rest of your life?
    I once dated a guy that only wanted sex when he wanted it which was every 3 months and when we did I wasn't aloud to look at him, touch him, moan or anything. It was horrible. I kicked him to the curb and now I have such a caring boyfriend and amazing sex!
    When a guy treats you like that it does make you feel unwanted and it sounds like there is no passion involved and it doesn't sound like you enjoy it either or that he is satisfying you.
    I hope it works out for you and you fine someone who appreciates you :) xx

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  • Time for a new boyfriend. Out with the old, in with the new. The new guy will be much better. In the mean time you probably just made a few guys here cum with that story.

    • she right with all she said here, get rid of him, find someone who appriciates you or at least doesn't take you for granted, trust me even a one night stand guy would of treated you better when having sex with you. plus your right, as shameful as it sounds i did get a hard on reading her question, tough i didn't cum

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  • I see you having two choices:

    1) You can pick up and move on. You're completely justified doing so.

    2) You can sit him down, away from the sex, when things are positive, tell him you're really into him, and ask him where the two of you stand. Once he responds, tell him how you feel. The most critical element in this conversation is that it be calm, direct, and mater of fact. No outbursts, crying, yelling or going psycho bitch, if you'll excuse the term. By staying calm, you'll make him feel safer to be honest with you. He's using you for a masturbation receptacle. You don't have to take that.

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    • Any idea what you'll do?

    • Well it just doesn't feel right.. And i don't think i can keep doing this you know so i think im gonna put an end to it

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  • it's obvious... can't you see? :-)

  • leave him, he's a complete prick