He usually paces during sex by pulling out and can last up to 5 mins but last time barely got a min why was this?

He usually pulls out to pace and can get 5 minutes more than has to agisn. But this time around he barely got 30 seconds - 1 min each time he pulled out to pace. Why is this? Does he normally imagine?
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  • It just depends…

    It could be anything from how long it’s been since he ejaculated last to that he was just super-sensitive that day.

    It sounds like he may have some issues with controlling his ejaculations to begin with, but he’s learned that pulling-out and stopping the stimulation of his penis will allow him to slow things down a bit and have a little more stamina. If it’s been awhile since he ejaculated last, his penis may be more sensitive and his normal delay techniques just wouldn’t work.

    He could also have been really excited to have been having sex with you, and that caused him to finish sooner that he/you expected.

    If his stamina is a concern, you could discuss it. One way to do it Is for him to wear a condom (if he’s not already doing that). Two, he could try a condom with desensitizing stuff inside it. Otherwise, I’d say that most guys can “train” themselves, so that they develop more control over their ejaculations and increase their stamina. You can do it together or he can do it by himself. The easiest way to do it is for you/him to stroke his penis until he feels like he’s getting to close to the “point of inevitability”, then stop all stimulation for a little while. Then start stroking again, and stop, and start again and stop, etc. once he’s lasted awhile, you can let him ejaculate. You could even progress to incorporating oral sex and/or vaginal sex (starting and stopping and starting again, stopping again…) Keep doing this for awhile, and he should get better at controlling his ejaculations and increase his stamina. Good luck! Let us know if it works.

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  • A dude needs to masturbate at least twice a day to keep his stamina up.

    If I go a couple days without masturbating or sex, I'm a TWO PUMP CHUMP and that goes for 99.999% of all dudes out there. If you wanna know why your dude finishes quick it's because he doesn't masturbate enough.

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  • Very inexperienced.

  • Being selfish having fun.

  • He was probably just extra horny that day.

  • If he fires off too quickly give him a handjob first... that way he will last a bit longer. Do you ever go for round 2... does that slow him down? How old is he and is he new to sex?

  • This time he was obviously extremely turned on and didn't notice he was about to ejaculate... until he did.

  • He couldn’t maintain control.

  • loosing controls.