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He wanted sex this whole time but when I finally agreed to have sex he friendzoned me..(no, we didn’t have sex at all)?

I sent him a sexy boob pic and I told him to jerk off and take care

He said “no I’m not and I see you as a friend”

But he did say it was “beautiful “ 🙄

I’m so confused

He did say he really liked talking to me and that I wasn’t wasting his time by not making up my mind about sex. But I don’t want friends with benefits and he does... he doesn’t like one night stands.
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  • If all he wants is a friends with benefits relationship and you don't, move on. You're seeing yourself up for heartbreak when you think it's exclusive and he finds the new tart of the week... that would be you for now.

    You can get sex anytime just by picking a dude and leading him by the hand to the nearest place to get naked and fuck. That's not what you want though, so why settle?

    Sex isn't the end all, be all. OMG, it's fun and pleasurable, yes. A million times over, but sex with sometime you're truly in love with has overtones you can't imagine, that you won't get just by laying down for a hard dick and an orgasm.

    You'll have to wait on that experience though. In the meanwhile, go experience life. Go learn. You might think it's love at whatever your age is, between 18-24. You might actually get lucky and FIND real love at your age. Chances are though, you won't, until later.

    At your current age, all there are, are boys and young men with no other concern than sticking their dick in a pussy. Just look at your current whatever you call him or it. There's all of the proof that you need.

    Wait for what you want. Don't let any slick talker sidetrack you. They'll try. They'll promise you the world. Wait on actions, not words.

  • Honestly the guy does not sound like a heterosexual are you sure he is into chicks? Because if he is then he is a weirdo and I would move on and forget this guy. The only possibility I can think of is that he doesn't think your attractive at all but he doesn't want to be mean about it. I mean I told girls no before, but that was only because I wasn't attracted to her in the least... but I never told them they were ugly or was mean about it.

    I would just assume he's not interest and I would stop talking with him. As a guy when ever a girl says no sex, but we can be friends that is the end of it for me and about any other self respecting guy.

    • Yeah he’s straight. He’s very sexual He pursued me first though.. but he still talks to me He said that he only wants friends with benefits and I don’t But he also said that he was still trying to support my spiritual journey

    • Oh sorry for miss understanding that situation. Yeah then maybe he is a good guy that wants to respect your boundaries. I mean if he is not looking for a real relationship when you are then he is doing the right thing by not having sex with you. friends with benefits only works when both parties agree to it... so he is doing the right thing.

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  • Wtf 😂

    • What am I missing?

  • Sounds like a weirdo

  • Does he want a relationship?

    • No, he said not at the moment because of work

    • But him and I both agreed that we’re not compatible for eachother

    • Are you ok with him flirting with you and sharing his fantasies of you?

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  • 🤣🤣🤣This is so messed up that I am laughing real hard!!!
    He finds you beautiful and that is it.

    • He found my boob picture beautiful that’s it. He never called me beautiful only cute

    • From what I can tell, that guy is pretty reserved in expressing himself. So unless he tells you that he is attracted you, please do not believe so. Cute word is a level above beautiful. Or even on the same level. But definitely a bit special. I would think twice to use cute word. He definitely has a thing for you, but he is not so sure himself.

    • I don’t think he likes me. He doesn’t even ask me any questions He did say that he’s not trying to pursue a relationship right now but he has respected many of my boundaries and hasn’t pressured me

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