He wants me to suck him off?

[theresyourgravy]

i was hanging out with the friend group i normally hang out, we were in one of there’s room hanging out. and this guy was like we should have a dick sucking contest. so i turned around, confused and grossed out. and he said “no not you” i was confused because i don’t know if he thinks i was offering or why he even said no not you in general. then he said to his two guy friends as a joke that they can compete and he’d be the judge. y’all can someone help me understand why he said the no not you thing?

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe he was trying to suggest to you that his two other friends are homosexual and he is the only heterosexual if you want to hook up.

[theresyourgravy]

but he was saying that the guys can give him a blow job😭

[OlderAndWiser]

If he was just trying to make a joke, it sounds very stupid and immature!

[theresyourgravy]

honestly

[summiter]

Were there other girls there? Did he want his guy friends to go down on each other?
How old are these guys?

[theresyourgravy]

there was two other girls but like 6 guys, i’m not sure. the guys joke around a lot but I don't know. 18-19 years old

[summiter]

Well do not overthink it. Did anybody end u having oral sex or handjobs?

[theresyourgravy]

nope but the guys claim they’re gonna see how many girls they can have sex with and extra pints if they’re a virgin. I don't know if he’s part of it tho

[summiter]

It sounds like a young guy thing. Have as much sex as possible with as many girls as possible. Don't become just one of their conquests or numbers.. be selective if you want!

[Anonymous]

[WhitneySnow]

He knows you’re not into that

[Th3ft]

Lol! Sounds like he wanted to test to see which guy sucked him off better. Sounds like he is gay.

[glennos89]

he was probably trying to see wether you and the other girls were up for it but when he saw your reaction he most likely tried to comfort you again because his plan wasn't working out the way he hoped

[bowenw]

It sounds like he saw you were grossed out by the idea and quickly said, "No not you."

[theresyourgravy]

like reassuring me?

[bowenw]

I get the impression he wanted you to do it until he saw you were grossed out by the idea of it and changed his story to not risk losing you as a friend.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

He is hoping to hint around that you or another girl would suck him off he knows what he is meaning come on he is being a complete asshole.

[theresyourgravy]

maybe, there were two other girls tho. one was doing hw, and the other was cuddling with me

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@theresyourgravy Yeah I see what was going on

[jamesgoldman]

Maybe he's homosexual hence not being interested in you

[theresyourgravy]

that could be the case

[tfan1]

To make that kind of joke, sounds like he’s gay especially when he said no not you.

[Havthrills]

Kind of sounds like he likes you and then defended you. Not sure about the whole situation.

[theresyourgravy]

i hope that’s it

[Havthrills]

He stuck up for you it sounds like.

[Jamie05rhs]

He could tell you were embarrassed and he was trying to make you feel more at ease.

Also, I think the whole thing could have been a joke.

[BJP21]

Probably just testing you in a cruel way. Its a bit immature.

[Pudsmucker]

He is very immature guy that wants to make himself feel important. He is nothing but a jerk.

[Smartman5]

it means he doesn't want you to enter the competition

[Surely]

You sure that he wasn’t gay?

[Zolly99999]

Was there someone prettier there? They were probably talking about another girl.

[LarryTheLunarLunatic]

To stall to think of what to say next

[Charliefretz329]

He probably didn’t want you to feel uncomfortable. He might be ok with you sucking him though! But didn’t want you to feel forced or pressured

[abc--123]

He sounds like a closet gay guy hoping to see and hopefully suck his friends cocks

[JamesRandiDebates]

Was he telling his 2 guy friends to suck each other?

[Gooddaze]

I think you hang around the wrong people

[Yellovv]

Maybe they are trying girls if some of them are into sucking dick...