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He wants nudes, what do I do?

So, I’ve been talking to multiple guys on snapchat lately, but they’re all from different parts of the country. I don’t personally know them, and since we’re in quarantine, I’m just looking for some fun.
I really like sexting, and i’ve been doing it with some guys. However, i don’t like sending nudes or other pictures of that form. The problem is that during sexting the guys always ask for pics eventually. I tell them i don’t want to send any, which mostly ends the conversation.
I still want to have fun and continue the conversation. I get that it kills their mood, but i really don’t want to send nudes, partly because im underage and don’t feel comfortable sending them. Do you have any tips on what to do when they ask for nudes? Should i send fake ones? Thanks!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Simple answer... if you don't want to then don't.
    A little deeper answer, though. How old are you? according to the age you signed up with you are over 18. So sending nudes is legal in America. So saying you are underage would not be true and would not be an excuse. If you are under that, even just the texting can be considered child pornography (does not have to be nude pictures). I would not recommend trying to send fake pictures. If you are underage, just quit. If older, make decisions on what you want and are willing to do then stick with them.

  • No you shouldn't send fake one just tell them you don't want to. But it's really hard to sext without pics :D I've been there and tried that, it can be ok for a while but sooner or later when you build up a connection with that girl you just want to see her and it kinda kills it if you can't.

Most Helpful Girls

  • At first I was going to suggest you ask for money in exchange for your nudes, but then I read you are underaged. So my advice is, in the words of Megan Thee Stallion: Send him a pic of some other girls titties.
    And then call the cops if these boys are older than you and know it’s child porn.

  • find another thrill... if you must send fake... but don't send them of you as that can back fire later on... even years later and it could cause great embarrassment just for the sake of a little fun... so if you must send fake one's... or find something else to do.

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  • You tell them you don’t want to. If you’re underage you should be wary about who you’re talking to anyway as well.

  • I don't think you should any ude pics. If a guy is seriously interested i you, he probably won't ask you for such pics at first. Maybe later, if you're already close for a while...

  • Don't send nudes.
    A guy who requests nudes is immature and should be told so, then blocked.

  • Weird... says on this app you're 18-24. Is there a pattern of lying going on here? You trying to get some honest men into some trouble?

    • I know it says i’m 18-24 years old, i’ve tried changing it but i can’t. It really was a mistake, i mean no harm!

    • Darn, I guess you'll have to delete your account then and make a new one with the correct age. I bet you lie about your age on snapchat too. You wouldn't be in this predicament if you weren't such a liar, you know?

    • Actually, i don’t lie about my age to them. They just don’t care... i do think i’m going to make a new account, thanks!

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  • Send them if you want or just say a 'no'. If they go, let them, if they stay, let them.

  • First since you are underage; never send nudes, that is illegal (it would be the creation and distribution of child pornography; and even if it is pictures of yourself you can still be charged with those crimes). Second tell them you can't send nudes because you are underage; and if they ask again report them to Snapchat.

  • Start from the beginning of the sexting by telling them. I've done it plenty withoit getting photos.

  • Do what makes u feel gud
    U should put ur condition b4 starting convo and enjoy
    If u want to send pic then avoid ur identity

  • just chat🙋🏼‍♂️

  • Do you. Like. Guys sending there nudes?

  • We just want something to keep our mood, just send some fakes one, but something that looks real or they are gonna say byebye :)

  • I wouldn't and if you do make sure your face is not in the picture

  • Seems like you have two options you can either send them your nudes and make your guys happy.
    Or you could just kill the fucking mood like a bitch.
    Your Choice.

  • They just have to respect you, and accept it that you dont send nudes! its totally normal, and its better that u dont send those kind of pics

    • i like sexting too, and i never ask for nudes, just if that girl is interested in sending, then ill be grateful tho lol but if she is not into, i never want nudes. i just send them by myself tho, i love getting comments on my pic lol how often do you sext?

    • would youP. :) _m me? if i went vi. sible

    • you there tho?

  • Girl, don’t do it, you don’t own them anything and you can’t trust them with your pics even if your face doesn’t show. But yeah, I’d just send fake ones 😂

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