He wants to eat me out really badly but I am so scared - What should I do?

Question

My boyfriend wants to lick my pussy. I refused it till now but he still tries to change my mind.

The thing is, Id love if he licked me but i am very insecure. Im scared of how ill taste and smell and look down there.

Cause when i taste myself, i taste salty (even tho when Im freshly showered) and sometimes also a little like tomatos. But trust me, I have no illness and take care of myself.
Also i have an „outie“ pussy: my inner labia is visible and hangs a little...

So, what should i do? Any tips?

bamesjond0069 · Accepted Answer

Honestly, a large portion of guys love pussy with some meat hanging out. That's why I think its retarded women get labia plasty to cut the lips off. That is terrible. I personally love lips and am kind of off put by women who don't have some hanging out. A former date of mine has huge huge huge pussy lips, by far the biggest I ever saw, even in porn and she had only let like 2 guys ever see it up close and one made a remark so she hadn't had sex in years. When I saw it and told her how sexy it was she really felt so relieved. Man I kissed that pussy and stared at it and just layed my head in between her legs and watched tv and buried my face in it all fucking night. But anyways the reason popular culture says its gross is because Playboy thought it was TOO SEXY to display lips like that in the magazine so they always tucked them or only shot girls who didn't have them. So then you let a generation or two of people grow up looking at playboy and not seeing the lips, you get all these guys acting surprised when they see them on a real girl. Now you have porn online so its starting to be more normalized again but its not there yet. So now you know that all, don't worry so much.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Believe me, he knows exactly what he’s getting himself into.

A guy who likes to perform oral will love your personal scent and taste, associating it with your pleasure and his arousal. He’ll love every second of it.

Presumably, he’s already seen your vulva, no? If he’s asking to give you oral, it’s clearly nothing but a turn-on for him. There is nothing wrong or gross about your labia. What you described is exceedingly common.

I recommend the two of you share a glass of wine or cocktail, head to the bedroom, and take a deep breath. Let all your hangups go as you exhale, knowing that he knows what to expect and *still* wants to do it as badly as he does. Then all you have to do is lay back enjoy the hell out of it!

Good luck and have fun!

Lyndsielee666 · Accepted Answer

Just let him. Guys don’t care unless you smell like fish 🤷‍♀️

AustinMan · Answer

You should lie back, relax, and enjoy it. He knows what a woman smells like, tastes like and looks like. When a guy has his face buried in your crotch, he's not doing an artistic evaluation on the appearance of you intimate region.

Logorithim · Answer

Let him do it- you'll be fine

zozo7880 · Answer

tastes like tomatoes? that made me laugh...

But anyway, its not that big a deal, and every girl has a bitter taste you are not the only one. Just shower first so its clean, that's about all there is too it for all girls.

TadCurious · Answer

You have a common worry but it's unfounded. If a girl has just basic hygiene and no vaginal infection then there's no issue down there. A clean and healthy vulva/ vagina has a normal and natural scent which is a turn on for guys. The taste is basically bland like any other skin with (as you noted) a little saltiness from your normal secretions. As for having a perfectly normal and very common vulva with inner labia that are visible, well that is NOT a problem in any way. At least half of all girls have labia like that. Your boyfriend really wants to do this for you and he's gonna be turned on like crazy by giving you that kind of pleasure. And if you have a healthy acceptance of your normal and healthy body you'll be able to lie back and just focus on the sensation from receiving oral sex. And you deserve to experience that without worrying about your body.

curiousguy79 · Answer

All pussies are beautiful, as long as you’re healthy and std free don’t worry you will taste fantastic outie lips make it almost like kissing a mouth it’s that much more interesting

Raybert · Answer

That's all normal. You're gonna love it. You might taste or smell a little strong but in the heat of the moment, I wouldn't worry. Have a few drinks. Make sure you clean front and back (he might give you a rim job too). Has he eaten other girls?

jacquesvol · Answer

If you don't want it, just say 'NO' What doesn't he understand? The N or the O?

mellowman · Answer

Go with the flow. You'll have a great time and open a new door to fun with him

Twerk4Me · Answer

Just keep really clean down their before he does it. you'll be fine

Twalli · Answer

Let him. From what I've heard it feels amazing and since he said he wants to give you oral and not have oral means he likes doing that.

ND4SPD31 · Answer

Let him go to town, you’ll enjoy it! 😉

Hawky_ · Answer

Let him. You'll love it

Mahof · Answer

Don’t worry he will love it.

Ben228 · Answer

Sounds just right actually.

Nachowedgie · Answer

Sounds perfect, he'll love it

Anonymous · Answer

Go vegan. Vegans smell and taste much better. Meat eaters often smell of fish and other stuff. And reducing salt in your diet might help with the salt taste.

Anonymous · Answer

It's safe to assume he's not expecting that there will be no taste or smell. Just remember that he really wants to do it and probably has some idea of what to expect. For me, there aren't a lot of things that turn me on more than going down on a woman and I haven't had any bad experiences doing it.