He went down on me the first time we hooked up?

Does a guy usually just go down and eat a girl out like that? Or is there any more 'meaning' behind everything? I mean, i was surprised, because it was the first time we hooked up. Just a random, drunk, hookup and fun. But it seems more common that girls always go down on guys, even if its just a random hookup, and that guys just don't go down on a girl without it being something more? Or what? I'm just confused, just kind of new to all of this, so yeah. Just want some answers.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It might seem unusual but that just goes to show that not every guy is the same and that every guy is different. Maybe that's his routine or it was in the spur of the moment. Maybe he felt like he wanted to go down on you. I mean, he really wants to pleasure you and he likes it when the girl he's getting intimate with feels good so that's why he did it. It could be That goes for the same with girls. Girls either go down on the guy because they like it or they do it so their partner feels good. Or it could be both. You'll meet all sorts of people who do things differently. Expect the unexpected.

  • When I behave like that with a girl, it's because I'm very attracted to her. Girls are like flowers, each one has a different perfume and taste, and as such I can never be sure what to expect, so when I'm saying to myself "I don't care, I badly need to taste her", It sure is a proof that she pleases me a lot.

    • Thanks for MH

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't think there's too much meaning to it. When I used to hook up with one nighters there would be a few times some of them would go down on me.

  • Some guys will and some won't, it doesn't necessarily mean anything.

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  • I wouldn't say unusual but I agree with you it's not the norm. Usually when drunk I'm just trying to focus on just getting in between your thighs, going down is trying to impress maybe he wants more than just one night random drunk sex. He definitely left a lasting impression and differentiated himself from other hookups you may have had so he succeeded.

  • Wow. Bf just won't do that, period.

  • it just means he likes eating pussy and its a good thing

  • Sure. Why not? I like it.

  • I've will down on a girl for sure, because I love oral sex more than anything. It's the best way for me to get aroused, so not eating a female out is a turn off for me and makes me loose interest altogether.

  • sometimes. thats awesome

  • Its quite normal.. I've gone down on a girl our first time hooking up and thats all that happen i ate her out till she came and literally left while she took a shower i and many other males just enjoy eating a female out

  • Most don't, that's weird

  • It wouldn't be any more unusual for a guy to go down on a girl than a girl going down on a guy on a first hookup.

    • Nice point