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He would rather watch porn; he lied about being freaky?

I guess this dude has an addiction. He likes to watch it from 2am to 7am... not stop. What really pissed me. off is that I begged for sex. And he said "why would I need to give you more. I'm not a machine!" Okay... well you wanted to watch porn... soooo? I don't get it we have great sex. And I don't nag or have any steps or rules to our sex. So it's not like it would be easier for him to just watch porn. He compliments me all the time... but then he has to refuse and watch porn. Is it me or what? how can I handle this relationship going further if he has a porn addiction?
Something else that pissed me off. He has all these "kinks" like candle wax...(never done it on me) Bondage...(only did that to me once) And he has he likes other freaky stuff. Well... I love that and as far as I've seen in 9 months. His sex is boring and so is the porn he watches. ( I can hear it) the porn I watch is more entertaining. What is up with this dude? I told him to his face I love that stuff but it's like I never said it. Soo.. why keep all your kinks around the house and not use them on me?
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For those who are confused it's okay to watch porn. I watch it.
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  • Sounds pretty weird that he would have all these kinks but never try them. If the porn is boring and he rarely tries anything with you, then he probably found out he wasn't into that, after all. What do you call "boring porn" exactly, and what is the kind that you watch? Be descriptive, please. I'm not going to jerk off to your answer, but I'd like to just get a better idea of what we're dealing with. Some people have too much of what other people have too little, ha ha! You'd make a lot of other men happy with that behavior, especially if you aren't naggy, like you said. That's so rare to find

    • Well yeah like I don't care about orgasming or anything. I just want to have fun sex. Lol but just the vanilla guy on girl fake stuff. He's not into or good at foreplay either. That is one thing I'll admit that I kinda nagged or just brought it up a few times. But he's trying and that's okay.

    • I'll just say whatever porn he's watching it must not be too great.

    • Did you just tell him he was bad, or did you give him a few pointers? Because just telling him he sucks is better than not saying anything, certainly, but still doesn't help much.

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  • That is strange. Have you ever gone to distract him and when he gets riled up, asked him, "What are you gonna do, spank me? I don't think you're man enough to spank me!" Something like that might do the trick. Maybe go down on him while he's watching?

    • biased mho

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  • Maybe he's just adicted to porn or you just don't turn him on. Have you tried something like going to him nude while he's watching porn and like just get down and start sucking him?

    • biased mho

  • He sounds boring. Find a diff guy or use your hand.

    • I agree. Watching porn can be fun.

    • biased mho

    • Thanks girl 😊

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  • wow my ex wife claimed she was into a lot of stuff too and when it came to it i found out she was more vanilla than a generic sheet of white paper...

    • Well that's sad... probably why she's an ex. But my sex life is important and if I have to have vanilla sex with someone who swore up and down they were freaky.. it gonna cause issues. It's like vanilla ice cream... it's boring. Why eat that when I could have cookie dough or cotton candy.. with chocolates and syrup or whipped cream on top.

    • well her being an ex was a combination of her lying about things like that and a lot more nefarious things, when i get in a relationship i make sure honesty and loyalty are top of the priorities, and that if they are gonna lie about something then i can't trust them and would be vice versa too... but i totally agree, will say though my last relationship (my last girlfriend after my ex wife) was very kinky, we were always doing a variety of kinks from whips, paddles, cuff's, ropes, roleplay, candle wax, food, she wanted a DDLG relationship which was fun to be in, then went into a sub/dom until she changed her mind and wanted to be the dom, which while i am open to some levels of switching i dont do well as a sub... so tend to be in control during sex... it ended early last year cos of these issues, it couldn't work as she wanted us both to be dominant... and 2 doms will clash so we decided to go our separate ways but remain friends.

    • That reminds me of my old roommates. Yeah I don't need to get into all that stuff. To me it makes sex too much work

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  • Wow, porn over sex. I know what i would pick and its not porn.

  • He may see you as a roommate rather than a soulmate. If that is the case you need to move on.

    • Ugh...

  • scrapping the bottom of the barrel missy

  • Why on earth are you still with this clown? He's obviously addicted to porn, so dump his sorry ass and move on.

  • ->I don't nag
    ->it pisses me off
    ->it pisses me off

    I can already feel what a headache you are. Yeah I would stick to porn as well.

    • But I would have told him this rather than asking you guys. He has no idea but he knows it affects me. Your a fucking idiot because he has a porn addiction clearly

    • So no I don't nag. I haven't even spoken to him about this.

    • Instead I have to deal with someone who compulsively watches porn while I'm sleep. That's why he hides it

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  • He sounds he is living a dream. Sooner watch it than do it. I don't know what this guy is about. I love my lesbian porn , but having a girl at side of you begging for it , I just cannot get my head around it.
    This is more than addiction...

  • Sounds like his porn addiction is got his mind messed up

    • Yep.. .

    • Sorry to hear

  • You can tell him how you feel about him watching a lot of porn, but, you can NOT tell him what he can and can't do

    YOU DONT CONTROL HIM

    • You didn't read it. Lol he can watch as much porn as his little heart can take. But hello... read? why isn't this dude having sex with me like he should if he says I'm so attractive and he loves me. Lol

    • are you in a relationship with him?

    • Um yes I live with him

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  • The only time I watch porn is when I’m not in a relationship!

  • Ok, seriosly, it could easily be you. He might not like you or you might keep doing something. Unpopular opinion here, but maybe you're just jealouse? Its not as uncommen as the media says, by a country yard.

    Other hand maybe he's gay? Or seeing someone else? He could be mentally ill but that's such a snowflake opinion I only mentioned it to fck it off.

    Personally I think he doesn't like you as much as you like him. Sorry, but, you asked the truth from a stranger.

    • Well of course I am jealous when I walk around in my underwear and tell him I'm horny... and then I hear moaning of a female from the other room through his phone. Why watch a girl get off when you could watch me? Or pleasure me like dude is doing to the actress in the video? Hahaha

  • he's a jerk

  • Sounds like a kinky sex addiction

    • But it's not because he never does anything king during sex...

    • Maybe he's afraid you will not like it

    • But I told him.. looking him straight in the eye. (The truth) I love that stuff and I was specific about what I like. He knows.

  • Reject him ASAP.

  • He is a loser; you should dump him if he would rather watch porn then have sex with you.

  • It's time for you to really sit down and have a heart to heart conversation with him about what it is that you expect from a relationship.
    This has been a message from Dr. Phil.
    Blah blah blah.
    No really, he wants to watch porn more that to fuck you.

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