Headache, excuse for not having sex?

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If after first round, or before round, girl tells you that she doesn't want to do as she has headache. Can it be excuse? If yes, what can be the reason.

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But can it be persistent reason everyday? @kayleelyn199723

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Bee-Hatch Guru
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Excuses aside she said no, and that's as far as it goes. Headache may be correct or it may be she just didn't want to.
FYI women need to feel in the right mood to have sex. It's not as simple as just being in the vicinity of a potential partner. If she's not feeling it then it won't be happening.
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- Asker
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  Okay ma'am! Anyways, i am not forcing. It is just that what can be the reason. I am just asking that. Don't take seriously that i am forcing her.
- Bee-Hatch
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  Didn't say you were forcing anything. But you need to understand its different for girls in terms of why we do or do not get busy. If you try to understand what might be on her mind it might give you more of a clue.
- Asker
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  That's the thing i am not understanding what's in her mind. That's why confused.
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- Bee-Hatch
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  Do you like her? Start by saying it's ok, that you don't have to. Try to be reassuring and tell her it's not a problem. Ask if it was anything you did (not saying you did, but you won't know if you don't ask). Then move on to is she ok. Has anything upset her? Talking it through can help get to the bottom of things.
- Asker
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  Yes, i like her. I asked the same way. She remains quite and if i forced her to speak, she becomes angry and irritating.
- Bee-Hatch
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  Then don't force it. Times like that - You need to go full Elsa and let it go. Can be frustrating, but it'll build trust.
- Asker
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  Okay.. Thanks for your prompt suggestion.🤗
- Bee-Hatch
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  Dude if she's still spending time with you and has had sex before, it'll happen again. There might be something bothering her you're unaware of. Just be supportive and you'll be like a rat up a drain pipe when she's ready.
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  Hahah.. eagerly waiting for the same.. 😜
kyleelyn199723 Guru
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Yes it can be an excuse because a headache can make sex not enjoyable as it can inhibit you from getting wet. Also a girl saying no, should be enough for you. Instead of making her life a living hell because you can’t except a no here and there, make sex enjoyable for her
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- Asker
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  But can it be persistent reason everyday? @kayleelyn199723
- kyleelyn199723
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  Yes it can. I get daily migraines from my job. But again, even her saying no should be enough. The more you accept her no’s the better quality sex you will get.
- Asker
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  Ahh.. I see. Better quality will happen only when she allows ! Lol. Everyday, if the same reason may not be due to the same.
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- kyleelyn199723
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  You are making sex a chore by not allowing her to say no. This is why sex becomes unenjoyable for us women. Don’t take her saying no as rejection, take it as she’s not in the mood. Just like sometimes you aren’t in the mood to do certain things
- Asker
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  Got it. Thank you for your kind information. Will certainly look after the same.

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ChrisMaster69 Master
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Yes it’s her body, if she does not want to them you dont,

if you think it’s an excuse, then find a new girl.

its simple really.

have you possibly thought the headache may be linked to how you treat her before, during or after sex?
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A_Bell Yoda
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I can get bad migraines and the excitement of sex can make the painful pounding of the headache intolerable.
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  Migraine can be problem, but there should be some alternatives to enjoy! Right. @a_bell
Sweetener_ Xper 7
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Having daily migraines is possible, I've been experiencing it for months...
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- Asker
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  Does it affect sexual life? I guess it can relax you more.
- Sweetener_
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  I don’t have a sexual life, but even with headaches I would still partake in masturbation because it used to put me to sleep, but sometimes it's eally painful and it breaks the mood so I just bear the pain. You might not understand the pain she's going through, so instead of being pushy about sex, try to be understanding and ask her if there are ways you can help her out, you'll see that things will work eventually ❤
- Asker
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  ❤️❤️ Thanks for you help. I would surely try that. May be hugs and kisses will work 😬
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- Sweetener_
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  You're welcome 😊❤
Anonymous
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Maybe you are too bad at doing it. Or boring!
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- Asker
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  That's not like that. Couple of months back, we have to have daily 4 to 5 sessions. Can you please elaborate how to do effectively?
- Opinion Owner
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  Many girls won't tell directly to their partner that they suck at having sex thats why they dont wven know it abd they think they are good at it then they dont get it when they make excuses to not having sex. I would tell openly if i didn't like it
- Asker
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  Suddenly, if this has started, what can be the reason! She used to enjoy a lot.
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- Opinion Owner
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  Lol...
- Asker
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  🙄 what?