What exactly will make you feel good is hard to tell without knowing you, but if you just want something safe that definitely won't turn into a huge mistake, I'd probably suggest reading erotica or watching porn, assuming you like those things. They're one-way taking in external media, without having other people involved.
But a lot really depends on your personality. Some people would probably feel better doing something active, like posting lewd photos somewhere or sexting. More risky as you can't always trust the people you're interacting with, but to some people getting positive feedback on their nudes definitely lifts their mood. If you already have a sexting partner (or multiple) that you trust, that could probably be a safer version than posting nudes among strangers.
One thing I've had success with is an inbetween solution - write your own erotica and post it somewhere where people can read it. Again, if that's something you're comfortable with. It's an active action in which you create something you can get positive feedback on, but without putting lots of photos of yourself out there.
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one good idea could be to sext with strangers online. sexting is a fun and exciting way to turn yourself on and is great as a precursor to masturbation (or heck, even during!). sexting is a great alternative to watching porn or reading erotica as it allows yourself to be fully immersed in the situation and gives you control over how the story plays out. sexting is not only safe as it doesn’t require you to reveal your identity, it also helps you realise fantasies that are otherwise not attainable in real life.
this is not only a healthy way to spice up your masturbation routine, it is totally safe and fun!
another idea that i have in mind for you is to immerse yourself into the world of erotica.
in this day and age where porn sites are aplenty, the vast majority of us turn to them as a form of visual stimulation. little do we realise that there are many other alternatives to porn. reading erotica, or how i like to call it: one handed reading - not only gives you enough details to get your juices flowing, it also lets you have plenty of room for your imagination to run wild.
sending/receiving nudes or dirty videos (to strangers) can be thrilling. the idea of having someone else masturbate over you is not only flattering, it also makes you feel sexy.
sending videos of yourself masturbating can turn yourself on even more (if you have a kink for exhibitionism) and receiving them from strangers can aid as visual stimulation.
calling and masturbating together with others can be a fun and spicy way to “up” your masturbation game. listening to each other’s moans and dirty talking your way through can help boost your imagination and is the closest you can get to hearing someone else in bed. while audio porn has been in the rise these days, they’re not personalised and lacks the feeling of being relatable. i loved to do this with virtual friends (when i was single), and it certainly got me off every single time without fail.0 0 0 0
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Hmmm , not sure... Use a vibrator and show others? Whatever floats your boat I guess.1 0 0 0Lol. Sounds a little scary.
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Reading erotica, Audio erotica, Sexting, watching porn videos.
Learning about sexual health, learning about sex and new stuff.
exploring any fantasy kinks you have1 0 0 0Lol that's a lot
@jamietav95 lol not all at the same time 😂 Just in general lol
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Find a site that entertains you. That provides info and fun on something you like. If you are feeling sexual, find a site that has the kind of porn you like, and if you feel like it, masturbate to it. Many things to do and still be safe.
0 0 0 0I jack off to something hot, online. it makes my day.
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0 0 0 0Watching porn or reading erotica is safest period, dont think of anything else coz its not safe
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If you want a healthy sex life stay offline. The internet will make you impotent.
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0 0 0 0When I am feeling down I am doing other things than searching Sex online
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1 0 0 0I would encourage you to write some of your fantasies and then maybe read something similar... that should make you feel really good in every way.
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1 0 0 0Nothing... he will share it with friends... or in internet... perfect man doesn't want nudes rather wants mutual understanding to continue... it's quite waste of time...
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1 0 0 0I assume every boyfriend you had, he was the one who hit on you or pursued you
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