Heavy petting sessions when we are only dating for a month, right or wrong?

Is it too fast or something? No we didn't have sex as we both didn't think it was right to do it before marriage It started from light petting when we were kissing and he started to fondle my boobs with my top on. This carried on for about an hour before he started putting his hand under my top and fondle my boobs with my bra on. Things got really carried away afterwards as he lift my bra up and started teasing and pinching my nipples while i moaned. He carried on by grabbing my hand to his pants and he was hard as fuck and i began to stroke his dick with his pants on while he stroke mine with my shorts on too. Then, he took my hand and slide it under his pants and boxer and i was literally giving him a handjob. He suck on my nipples as i continued and he cummed. We didn't stop there but continued on while he started to remove my bra from underneath my top. Is this normal for a couple who have only dated for like a month? Anyone?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Well, it depends on how you define normal. Is there even a definition?
    You are eighteen, meaning you are an adult and old enough to make and understand your own decisions. I´m 19 and also had sex the first time when i was 18. I did it with my boyfriend whom I was with for about a month too. So does that make you normal?
    The thing that matters is if you trust him, if you can make fun of each other and laugh and talk for hours, then you're probably in love and ready for sex with this guy.
    However, just like its very normal to not wait until marriage, it is also normal to wait until marriage. It´s just a choice, and its yours. Just dont go and sell your virginity on ebay or something...

  • If you both want sex, then have sex. Marriage isn't for sex, it's for when you decide to have a forever relationship where you're already having good sex.

Most Helpful Guys

  • There are couples who have kinky sex on the first date and there are couples who don't have sex before marriage and then don't even consummate the marriage on their wedding night. Comparing yourself to other people isn't helpful because you are not "other people."

    What is important is how you and your partner feel bout what you did. Do you feel dirty, guilty, shamed? Do you feel happy, glad, liberated, want to do it again, want to do more? Does what you have done cause either of you to think less of the other one? Do what you want to do and don't worry about what anyone else might think about it; you are the one who lives with the consequences of your behavior, not them.

  • If you are happy and comfortable with what happened, then that is all that matters. Some will say too soon, others will say no it's not too soon. Take no notice of any of them. It's how YOU feel!!

    Do whatever you feel you would like to do, but don't be pressured into anything you aren't happy with.

    Enjoy what you do and enjoy being with your guy!!

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  • Just do what feels right. No two relationsips are the same. Taking advice from use it only going to screw up the dynamics of YOUR relationship.

    If you are waiting until marriage, I suggest that you take it easy as there's not much more you can do besides have sex at the rate you're going - that is uness you plan on getting married in 4/5 months. Haha!!

  • Did you really need to go into that much detail?

    Are you trying to show off, or something? You honestly could have summed it up with "is breastplay and light touching here and there appropriate for a couple that have been dating for a month?"

    • What got up your ass? We are all adults here. If you didn't like the wording, why bother pointing it out - just refrain from answering?

    • @Bhammer_92 I don't care if we're adults, I don't need to read some indulgent wall of text when she could have just summed up her dumbass question in a sentence.

    • Precisely - you didn't need to read it. Anyways, everyone's entitled to their opinion - I just found it rude of you to 'go off' on her when you could have just let it be, especially since it was neither your question, or directed towards you.

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  • If you think you're both ready or comfortable to do that then why not

  • Some do more the first evening

  • If it feels good then do it...

  • You are just a couple of normal horny bastards.