Help!! How Do I Sext A Guy?

me and a guy got close and he asked me to sext him. I don't know WHAT TO SAY!! Please help 🙏 😢

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  • That’s why I don’t sext anymore lmao

    Once I googled some phrases guys like to hear. Got it off of metropolitan or something? Lmao now I remember: it was Cosmopolitan, I think, that had an article.

    Anyways, best way to help you is: just tell him what you would want to do.

    Forget about if it’s weird or not, just say it lmao.

    Simple. Complex. It’s whatever.
    (some guys also like if you just share fantasies too. That gives an idea of how naughty you could be. Levels etc.). BE TRUE TO YOU.

    You just say what you want to do or would do if you both were alone together.

    Its not a book. You can keep it basic or be descriptive- especially in the cock area example:

    *licking from the bottom of the balls to the top.*

    Lol like describe the motions. the speeds. The areas. The pressure? Lmfao

    Dont stress yourself out…. But seriously 😐 can’t sext and touch at the same time. Most of the time yk I don’t think guys are even jerking all the time when they read that stuff. I bet both guys and girls can’t do both so I don't know why sexting is a thing. Maybe just foreplay good “erotica” for the lady to touch to later?
    I think… they touch maybe, but they won’t go over the edge with it- so don’t expect your words to make them get there too lol

    They’ll hope to get you over the edge first, and then hope you’ll give them a visual in return or later, with time a “real time” visual of you reaching ecstasy. 🤪

    Thats just my guess though.

    Best of all to you.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Don’t be an idiot he could post your nudes all over the Internet and you Wouldn't even know.
    Or maybe you’d find out that your nudes were posted and shared. He could sell your nudes to put extra cash in his wallet. But hey you wanna be an idiot be my guest I won’t stand in your way.

Most Helpful Guys

  • This is your opportunity to overcome the awkward. Be honest. What do you want him to do to you sexually? Say that. String it out one text at a time and he'll be putty in your hands. What do you want to do to him sexually? Say that. It's an opportunity to safely share fantasies or try things out before your clothes are off and you're in bed. It also doesn't mean you have to do any of it, but it's an opportunity to bond, and it's also foreplay, whether you meet in person later or for some self pleasure afterwards. Just relax and be you and lean in to your feelings.

  • That guy is a fucking tool, you should drop him for someone smoother instead of feeling pressured to do something you aren't comfortable with.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Don’t do it. It will always be online…on the web. In cellular data.

  • Maybe something about his body

    • Like his arms?

    • @throughinow sure

  • I don't know either

  • If you really want help, message me. I will help you the best that I can

  • Don’t do it

  • Try Google words to say

  • It's easy but whst are you comfy doing message me ill help xx

  • Just tell him what you like to do. Ask if what he likes to do.

  • Don't initiate any naughty conversation. Make him to make the first move.

  • Just put in text what you would like him to do to you. The more detail the better

  • He must nudes lol. So you’d strip down, find a nice angle that doesn’t show your face, take a pic and send!

  • Say no :)

  • Ask him if he's hard.

  • Tell him your wearing something really sexy and you want his opinion. Also, mention just getting out of the shower. He will assume you are naked, lol.

  • Don't do it. You will regret it.

    Don't lower yourself to that level.