HELP!!! I THINK I GOT MY GIRLFRIEND PREGNANT WHAT DO I DO?

For starters, we've been dating for 2 months and yesterday we were having sex in the tub and I cummed in the water near her vagina. We're freaking out and we don't know what to do because her parents would kill us if she got pregnant too soon. What do I do is she pregnant?
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  • Actually, you should both be happy. You are about to experience some of the greatest joys you will ever know.

    For the record, I have experienced six pregnancies total, four of which were accidental/unplanned.

    One - the first - ended in a miscarriage and was with a girl I was dating my senior year in college.

    Three pregnancies were with my current live-in girlfriend of 11 years, with whom I have two little boys and my little princess. (The first two were unplanned pregnancies. The third was planned.) My girlfriend and I love each other, she is the center of my universe, and have talked about marriage but in some weird way we feel like a big ceremony and an expensive ring would just cheapen what we have.

    Also, I was contacted about two years ago by a woman with whom I had a one night stand. We did not know each other well, frankly, but we had an amazing night and, it turns out, I got her pregnant,

    The thing is that she decided not to tell me and raise the baby on her own. However, as he became a teenager she decided that her child needed to know his father. So she tracked me down two years ago and now I have a 14 year old son. (My other children are 10, 9 and 7.) I am very proud of him and although it was awkward to start, we have grown quite close.

    The only one I regret is a girl I dated just out of college. I got her pregnant and at first she seemed really excited - and I was, for sure. Then she changed her mind and - long story short - had an abortion without telling me. It is the most painful thing I have ever known and I miss so much the baby I never got to hold in my arms. Honestly, sappy as it sounds, when I think about that baby, it still brings tears to my eyes.

    To me, sex is natural and there is a part of me that, when I was having sex, wanted to get the girl pregnant. Intellectually I knew I did not want it, but there was just a part of me that felt like a man at the idea of getting a girl pregnant - and when I did, although I was sometimes surprised, I was not unhappy.

    In general, with a few exceptions, when I had sex it would be without a condom unless the woman I was with asked me to use one. Otherwise I just assumed that they were using birth control or were willing to have a baby.

    Beyond that, as I say, I enjoy sex and the feeling of making a baby, so to speak. Whenever I had sex I just assumed that if I got a woman pregnant I would do what a man was supposed to do and step up to the plate and take care of the little life I had made.

    Long story short, there is a happy ending as I have four little people in my life whom I love with all my heart. Only one of which I planned on. In the bargain I have also met - and live with - a woman who makes me feel like a giant and whom I love and could not live without.

    Yup, there will be adjustments and without knowing your circumstances I can't be more specific. However, overall, what I can tell you is that when they place that little person in your arms - a little person who you helped to make and who is a part of you - you will feel 1000 feet tall and will never know such happiness.

    So keep your head, work hard and be ready for the greatest experiences you will ever have. Oh, and in a few years when you come home from a hard days work and that little person come running up to you shouting 'DADDY!!" you will never know such happiness.

    So, believe it or not, I say to you and your girlfriend, congratulations.

    • I'm guessing all were conceived by you actually cumming inside the girl, not cumming un water near her vagina.

    • @Twalli Yes, that would be correct. in fact, I don't think I have ever tried - intentionally or otherwise - the method you mentioned. That said, after four children, I think I'll stop now. I love them with all my heart, but they have to eat and the income only goes so far, so my girlfriend and I are much more careful now

    • OP was worried by cumming in a tub near his girlfriend's pussy. It would pretty much take an act of God for that to result in pregnancy. Spem cells generally die relatively quickly if the temperature around them changes drastically. Furthermore water dilutes semen quite a bit. Then, even if it is still potent and gets in her, it has to be slightly before or during her ovulation to have any chance. However, even if a couple attempts to conceive and all that happens, it doesn't mean that she'll get pregnant.

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  • You are at least 25 years of age and you are so stupid? Sorry but that is the first thing that comes to my mind.

    Well, you do what a decent guy would do. You accept your responsibilities. You were stupid enough to ejaculate when you knew of the possible consequences. You took into account that an accident could occur, thus you implicitly also agreed to accept the consequences of your gesture.

    What you do if she is pregnant? You do the only thing that is acceptable and that is to recognize you are the father and you raise this child as your own like a person with character, personality and dignity does.

    Don't even think of murdering that possible child. You would only lose the little dignity you have left in you.

    • It's her body, her choice.

  • This has to be a trolling. No one can be this dumb that is having sex. If so they should not be having these tub trysts. 🙄

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  • You've.. never heard of Plan B? wtf.

  • why would you think she is pregnant just a day later?

  • Why are you having sex if you are this concerned of possibilities. If you created a new life that child deserves a man as a father. What do you do? Act like one.

  • Nah. Just relax. She ain't preggers.

    • Oh, but do be more cautious in the future. Always keep this scare in mind. 😉 🧠

  • I doubt she's pregnant but if she is discuss with her what the steps are going to be. Next time be more cautious.

  • If she actually is pregnant then do the right thing and take responsibility for your actions both of you.

    But I highly doubt that would get a girl pregnant but cross the bridge once you find out for certain.

  • It would be a medical miracle if your sperm survived in the water long enough to enter her and get her pregnant in the 48 hour period each cycle she's fertile.

  • 1. Recognize your stupidity.

    2. Either keep it or get am Abortion

    3. Get a tattoo to remind yourself that you are both fucking idiots.

    Its stunning how careless people are.

  • Man up and face your responsibilities

  • Just get a plan b for her.

  • HELP!!! I THINK I GOT MY GIRLFRIEND PREGNANT WHAT DO I DO?
  • If people truly don’t know how pregnancy works, they really should not be having sex at all.

    I very much doubt she is pregnant but if she was, best be prepared to have the baby.