Help me find out if I am really gay?

A 29-year-old man writes to you. I made oral love to an older man once when I was 19. I liked it, but we didn't have sex. I also like to wear women's thongs, to this day I wear them when I can. I also wore women's clothes and a bra, but what excites me the most is wearing women's thongs. I also like to insert objects in my butt, even tried with a dildo and liked it. And I have had such thoughts and sexual desires for men since I was 15-16 years old. For over 10 years I have had such desires, to be in the female role and to be with a man, but I have done nothing else, except that blowjob. At the same time, I was with a woman who left me because of these thoughts and desires. I have fallen in love several times, I like women. But over time, my sexual attraction to women somehow decreased and now disappeared. I still think I can fall in love with a woman, I like them, but on the other hand I want to be like them... The topic is serious. I don't know if I'm gay, I'm confused and I don't know what to do...
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  • Holy ape shit

    • What you mean?

  • Gay.

  • Sounds like you're bi, with either crossdressing fetisch or perhaps even should consider transitioning fully.

  • TL;DR. You're certainly gay though.

  • From what you wrote is seems like you might be transgender instead of gay but I don’t know you soooo

  • You need to change your sex

  • be who you are

  • Dude u ain't gay.

  • Sexual or emotional attractions whichever it is I think you don't need to put a label on it. I mean you are you why stereotype yourself. But then again some people wants clarity in life. Based on what you've said here I think you are bisexuals. I don't know cz I'm straight myself and none of my closest people are gay or of other sexualities. But whoever you are be proud. 💜

  • Women can have sex with other women and still claim to be straight.
    Women can wear men's clothes and still be women.

  • You a fucking fool or idiot don't you have a career...

  • Seem gay still, gay men like women but can’t be sexual attracted to them

  • Hahaha of course

    • you are a gay. I'm sure absolutely