Help! My belly gets in the way?

So I just started dating again after a bit of a hiatus. Things were going well with this guy until last night when things got physical. Admittedly I have put on quite a bit of weight since I was last dating and it did not work out so well. We tried a few things, but kind of gave up. He told me my belly was too big and got in the way. So girls with big stomachs, how do you do it?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Ok am not saying this to mean or fat shame you, but i think if your belly is getting in the way of sex then you should really be rethinking your diet choices. Since i can imagine your health will start to be affected by your weight then having sex with a guy will be the least of your problems

  • How big is your belly? Surely if it was that big he would have seen it well before then.

    • Its... big. I wore a lot of dresses and stuff though so he did not see how big.

    • Okay if your belly was that big, he would have notice. Even with dresses, it would still be protruding from you because it sticks out. Can you show an example? because that makes no sense. I am okay with a woman having a belly, depending on how big it is.

    • Oh he knew I had a belly, I know that. But I think he was a little surprised at how bad it was. Part of the problem is that it sags too.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I've a bit of a belly but it's not too big to get in the way.

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  • Honestly, I cannot imagine a belly so large it comes between the dick and the pussy. Since you are not willing to lose the fat, I cannot suggest anything.

  • Cowgirl

    • If she is really heavy it might not be that good for him.

    • We tried that, but I get too tired.

    • Yeh, cowgirl is way too tiring for an out of shape girl...

  • I think you know the solution.

    • No I don't, if I did I would not be asking.

  • I've been with a big girl or two. If a girl stomach hangs down lower than her vagina and I have to pick up her stomach to give her oral sex that's a turn off. So for me girls like that are too big lol, that's where I draw the line. So if your belly doesn't hang like that, I think he's trippin.

  • He is just a trashcan

  • That sounds silly. Not making light of it, but as a fan of thicc, I've never had a belly too big to deal with. Maybe he's on the smaller size, but still should be able to work things in.

  • I really dont see what the problem is, i have been with women with big bellies before and these days i have a big belly myself and I have never had a problem at all.