Help my boyfriend doesn't let me fvk him with a strapon? he got so angry at me after I tried to finger him during sex?

he doesn't let me peg him and finger his butthole. He also refuse to shave his body hair... He says that pegging is gay
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  • Sounds like he's old school. Meaning he doesn't believe in shaving his body hair. Cause he thinks it gay. Which leads me 2 my next point. If he thinks it's gay 2 use a strapon. Then best i can tell you. Probably u need 2 leave that issue alone. The trick is how long have the 2 of u been together. Reason i ask 2 see if might want 2 stick with it. What's ur reason for wanting 2 peg him. I don't see nothing wrong with it. But some guys get it in their head that it's gay. That what stay in their mind. which means he want change his mind.

    • he is a bigot. I will leave his gay ass.

    • That's it do what makes u happy.

  • At this point, you either let it go and move to other activities or you leave him and find someone who's okay with pegging.

    • I'll leave his lame ass

    • It's the best thing. You both have the right to find people who are better matches.

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  • In an extrem case pegging can be a spiritual experience for a guy and cause awakening during the facing of death. But that would be dangerous to try cause the mans body isn't used to take something in. That's why guys get so vulnerable when it happens.

  • This is borderline rapist behavior. When someone refuses to do something it's not up to you to make them do it.

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  • A year late, but whatever, hopefully you dumped his ass and found someone who likes what you like - It ain't gay since that the turn on is specific to the idea of role reversal - the idea that your woman is able to do that - A man would get knocked out if he tried shit on me

  • whats the problem you need help with? understanding no means no? or realizing his sexual interests are different than yours?

  • It may be that he's not into anal play, I'd respect his limit.

    • but I want to fuck him

    • Right, so try talking him into it, but if he says no unfortunately all you can really do is keep asking/try to offer him something in exchange to let you do it (like being able to fuck you in the ass).

    • he says that's gay... He stopped fucking me and he left the room when I tried to finger him during sex... then yelled at me all day :(

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  • Obviously pegging is gay, if you want to date a gay man he is not the one for you lol

    • how is it gay? and would you let your girl do your asshole?

    • Because it's a man, taking a dick in the ass. And no I would not, I'm not gay so I'm not interested in taking dick.

    • I think it's hot as fuck.. Would do it anytime

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  • I understand the pegging he right it is gay. i think you can convince him about the body hair tho

    • would you like to get fucked by a woman?

    • No not my thing

    • why not? Do you finger yourself while masturabating?

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  • Pegging IS gay, but talented fingers are another story all together.

    • IT'S NOT. stop being narrow minded... He never let me touch his cute butt. but I could feel how tight asshole was the last time I tried to finger him... He stopped fucking me and he left the room though

    • As you wish. Methinks you are trolling.

    • me thinks you are homophobic

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  • If he doesn’t want it, then he doesn’t want it. I surely wouldn’t want a dildo in my ass.

  • If he thinks its gay. He won't change his mind about you pegging him

    • he finds literally everything gay... I squeezed his butts before and he stopped talking me for a week...

    • Just squeezing his butt? Wow thats really childish of him..

    • he says that's gay... He stopped fucking me and he left the room when I tried to finger him during sex... then yelled at me all day

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  • Sorry he so close minded look for an older guy, they are less jung up on " perception"

    • Maybe it has nothing to do with age and everything to do with the fact that he doesn’t want a dildo in his ass?

    • @TonyBologna25 still means he's closed minded.

    • Not entirely. I don’t think I’m closed minded for not sucking dicks. I just know I’m straight and therefore it doesn’t appeal to me.

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  • Pegging is gay in my opinion as well

  • U should make him understand about rhe pleasure and mind orgasm he can get by these activities don leave him if u like his ass

  • A lot of guys won't like that. My ex tried it and it didn't feel good.

    • but I wanna fuck his cute butthole

    • That's something you will have to ask him. Ask him just to try it. What size is the strap on.

    • He never let me touch his butt... He says he is not gay

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  • So guys don't like it some do

  • I love pegging but I'm not interested in men at all

  • you want to peg him and shave his body hair, I feel like you are feminizing him, however many guys accept getting pegged from a girl and it's not gay it's just personal choice

  • If he says no the he means no, so leave him alone. If the tables were turned everyone would be saying lots of abusive things

    • but he says no to everything. He never let me touch his cute butt.

    • Then that's it, stop doing it, if you continue doing it it's sexual assault and he can have you locked away.

    • maybe I should just leave him... Would you like to get fucked by a woman?

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  • He's right. Pegging is gay. What were you thinking?

    • how is it gay? why everyone is so homophobe?

    • Because guys are the ones with dicks and women are the ones with holes to receive dicks. If a guy takes a dick or dick shaped object up his ass, he becomes the receiver, the same as a woman. That's gay.

  • That sounds very adventurous he will never be good with it

  • Get a new boyfriend. I let me girlfriend do me and I loved it. I am not gay and I am secure in my sexuality. I have no interest in men. But it was a fun kinky experience that I would do again.

  • Ahahaha did you just shove your finger up his ass without talking to him first? No wonder he got mad.

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