Help, my boyfriend doesn't want to spit on my face and slap me?

Help, my boyfriend doesnt want to spit on my face and slap me?
he always says "i can never hurt you". He refuses to chock me, slap me, kick me or spit on my face, what do I do?
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  • Never done so nor would I do. I wonder why do you like it?

  • Do not make him do that if its not in his nature. Go find a guy that will, if that is what you want.

  • Get him angry. Not too angry. Just beg for it too.

    My girlfriend wants mild choking (usually just covering her mouth... it's safer) and spanking but won't allow me to spit on her.

    However he needs to learn women like being dominated. He needs to step up to the plate. Man up. It's not like he won't enjoy it.

  • That's a shame he won't because i would love to

  • No thanks?

  • Sounds like someone should have talked about this sort of stuff before becoming boyfriend and girlfriend. Just sayin

    • How the hell would that work? Before dating or in the early stages just ask "Do you like being spat on?" Actually go through the process. We discover eachother's kinks as we go. Not wear them on our shirt...

    • @Midjett there are ways.

  • That's Me to a T. I CANNOT bring myself to mistreat my Queen. Not even in the slightest. What You can do is maybe bring it down a bit! Instead of slapping, or choking, ask if He'd try rough grinding!

  • I'm used to women complaining that men do that.
    I can't keep up.
    Disgrace to womanhood. Find another boyfriend. There should be a biker with 7 years beard growth who hasn't had a shower since then who would love to kick the shit out of you for no reason.
    Apparently you'd love that.
    Go figure.

    • haaahahaahahaaaahhaa

  • Troll.

  • OMG That's awful

  • You are messed up in the head or something

    • Or something? She is as screwy as a cork screw.

    • @Daniela1982 😂😂

  • Try less extreme things to build up to it

  • Guess you have to deal with your boyfriend not being into it or maybe somewhere down-the-line he will be who knows

  • Girl you need help

  • Yo that’s fucked.

    • Papi papi, papi chulo bengami bengami

    • Totally fucked bro.

  • And that is not a pleasant experience , and you are asking for it I am so surprised and concerned!

  • Have a discussion with him.
    If he's not doing it for you tell me him how it gets you on.
    If he actually doesn't like doing it, you can't force him into it.

  • Whaaat? I hope this question is trolling.

  • Become a pornstar, problem solved. Who's next?

  • Have a chat with him about how you dont find it abusive but a turn on

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