Help please, I've never been wet?

[Anonymous]

So I've never had a boyfriend let alone kissed anyone, I just haven't really had the opportunity I guess, but most girls I know have gone at least to fingering or bj...the thing is I've never been wet. Like I can get turned on obviously, but never been fully wet. Like dick pics sort of freak me out, don't really turn me on, and I think it's because I haven't done that yet. I also think it makes a difference if it's someone I have feeling s for, cause I've only fallen for one person and it didn't work out. I dont know what's wrong with me.

[madhatters4]

well I think you have to find out what really turns you on first. then really try to stimulate yourself that way which may involve fingering yourself. a lot of women can really do better getting turned on just with their imagination as opposed to guys who are often much more visually stimulated.

I think if you have made an honest effort to try and get turned on and you still aren't getting wet then perhaps there is something biologically going on which means you should meet with your gyno

[Anonymous]

First find out what turns you on, and keep looking for relation ships, if you do maybe well meet each other even though that's a scant possibility

[Anonymous]

You sound quite young and not sexually mature enough to appreciate sexual things. You also haven't done anything sexual which usually wakes up your body because of the pheromones and the adrenaline rush of it all. I can only get really wet when with my boyfriend before we have sex and I feel his hard penis near me. So it may change when you start becoming sexually active and you shouldn't worry too much about it.

[Asker]

I have a second question for you along this line, can you help?

[Opinion Owner]

Sure

[Asker]

So a guy sent me like multiple dick pics and I felt nothing..i'm worried...

[Opinion Owner]

Dick pics do nothing for me too even though I'm considered a sex addict. They're just ugly sex organs to me, but when you're horny, they're more interesting. I don't know why guys think dick pics would turn us on though.

[Asker]

Thank you for that, I was really worried, I honestly find a nice set of abs a hundred times more of a turn on

[Opinion Owner]

No problem. Don't worry so much. If abs turn you on, then that's a good sign, you don't have to find every part of the male body attractive.

[Anonymous]

Maybe your lesbian and only a girl can make you wet?