Helping a cuckold hubby by taking care of his wife.. Is that ok?

[Anonymous]

I met this married couple (M37 and F29)..
The guy is an engineer and always working odd hours while the wife is a school teacher and finish work early..
Met them at a party and the guy asked me how I find his wife.. the conversation went on and i understood he had cuckold fantasies and his wife liked it.
He wants me to sleep with his wife and do what i wanted sexually within limits.. he dont wanna watch, he would just want his wife to tell him the details after..

How common is cuckolding? Do you have any real experiences?

[Obtuse]

I had one strange case in the US. A pretty girl got extremely flirty with me at a bar and then introduced me to her husband which confused the hell out of me. So I talked to him privately for a moment to ask him if he's cool with what his wife is doing and he said it's fine, and so I thought maybe the wife is just flirty and that's her way of having fun and it means absolutely nothing. Then I hung out with the husband a while and he seemed cool.

So the both of them invited me over to their home for some more drinks and to smoke some weed. I was down and they lived in a very, very nice home, we had some more drinks (they made fresh margaritas and had some really nice Scotch), smoked a bit, and then the wife started getting frisky with me and trying to kiss me in front of her husband. I was like, "Whattttt? Wow... wait... WAIT! What's going on?"

So then they explained that they don't mind all of this and they're into good times and so forth and the husband likes to watch, but that's really not my way. I didn't feel right. So I told them that this really isn't my kind of scene and I even apologized if I mislead them in some way. They said it was fine and started having sex right in front of me. Then I tried to ignore it and just got smashed and they gave me a ride back to my hotel.

[Obtuse]

That was actually probably one of my top 10 weirdest moments in my life. It really weirded me out. I couldn't go for that though, even if the husband wasn't watching and despite his consent. It's not the way I think about marriage.

[BagoH]

Sounds like a scene out of a movie hahaha

[Obtuse]

@BagoH It really was the most foreign thing to me like that, like I stumbled into some swinger thing. I was just wanting to hang out and have more drinks after the bar closed.

[BagoH]

How did you resist hitting that thing tho? Even when drunk lol

[Obtuse]

@BagoH I don't know. I actually kind of panicked -- it was a bit too much at once -- like maybe I was naive but I thought the wife flirting at the bar and dancing with me meant absolutely nothing. In retrospect, I'm not sure what I would have done without the panic. But I'm hoping I don't go for it. I still don't think a married guy should be sharing his wife like that.

[BagoH]

Yeah i agree with you. But if they do I'm definitely hitting the wife, fuck it 😂

[Obtuse]

@BagoH I'm sort of weird but I'm wired towards the very boring vanilla side of sex. Kinky things tend to turn me off, and having sex with a man's wife in front of him is *extremely* kinky from my perspective. It's like I shut down when things get super kinky. I like one-on-one and feeling very connected to the girl -- might be slightly like a demisexual or something like that. I mean a naked hot girl still gets "Hubba bubba" instinct in me, I got that, and I like some porn here and there, but when things actually heat up in a kinky way -- I find I'm not into it. I have to feel some sort of connection -- not like I have to be in love with the girl but something that makes it feel very "genuine" if that makes sense, not weird kinky role-playing type of stuff.

[BagoH]

Yeah I got you man

[Obtuse]

@BagoH I might also be kind of prude in certain contexts -- kind of funny to say because I did use to party a lot and had a bit of a promiscuous streak. This will sound really lame but if a girl is all over me, even a hot one, I get kind of repelled a bit. It's like I'm not in control here -- I want to undress her, not her undressing me. If I'm all over the girl, I'm into it -- when I feel like I'm in charge of the situation. And that moment with the couple -- I didn't feel in charge of the situation at all. I'm just in a state of complete surprise. It's like a sex toy for them. So I didn't dig it at all. Anyway, cheers!

[Laozi]

It's not that uncommon.
So if you don't have problem with it then go ahead. But you've to be careful. Make it sure if they're safe. And then do whatever you want to.

[Anonymous]

You're not helping, you dunce. The word cuckold, after all, is applied to a husband burdened with an unfaithful wife. That he won't watch means he's likely like this because of some inferiority complex.

Do yourself a favour & move on. It's not "ok" and really it's a douche thing to do.

[4eyes2mouths]

Cuckold in modern times has a different view. It's basically a man that watches his wife with another man. Now he doesn't want to watch so that's not unheard of either. The asker isn't the first guy to come along. It's a modern kink. I say go for it. It's not a douche thing to do. I just don't think you understand the situation at all.

[Opinion Owner]

@4eyes2mouths Can you read? Or just dense? The OP said that the guy's not even watching.

[4eyes2mouths]

Yeah and I also said that in my post. Can you read? Lol he doesn't have to watch and it's not unheard of.

[Opinion Owner]

@4eyes2mouths So all in all you're a douchebag supporting another douchebag? I mean you say "modern kink" - in many ways modern society sucks.

[4eyes2mouths]

You don't have to understand it but your ignorance is showing.

[Opinion Owner]

@4eyes2mouths I understand perfectly. Man of low morals & ethics entertains a whorish wife who has a subdominant husband. What's not to understand? That's all it is.

[4eyes2mouths]

I'm glad you you came around it. Seemed like you didn't want to come to terms with it up until now.

[BagoH]

What are you some religious clueless freak? It's a KINK PEOPLE GET OFF OF THESE THINGS HELLLOOO 2020? Nothing douchy to fuck someone's wife at all. Wtf are you talking about 'douche supporting douche'

[msss98]

I don't think this happened to u just cause ur posting anonymously, if u have a fetish go explore it somewhere else

[Drumlin2001]

Fill your boots, but play safe

[BagoH]

If the wife is hot and you want some action then go right ahead and manhandle that woman let her cuckboy husband learn a thing or two lol.

[BagoH]

You're only helping yourself out 😂

[4mazing]

I fucked a guy's wife while he was at the pub. It was something they did. Just protect yourself.

[Maxnanet]

And she was super turned on?

[MackToday]

I sure wouldn't get involved in something sick like that. Cuck jokes aside that's fucking disgusting.

[Silent_Bob]

That's not cuckolding. Cuckolding is when the husband DOES not approve of the wife stepping out, but is either too weak to take a stand, or too stupid to realize what's going on in the first place.

[Bilover]

Wrong, if he didn't approve then that would just be called "cheating"! Cuckolding is happening everywhere and is something many couples enjoy. My wife has been cuckolding me for many years and I love it as much as she does. I get along with her lover very well, we even go fishing together. We have met many other cuckold couples over the years and they live their lives much the same way we do sexually. Sex with my wife is still as exciting as it was in the beginning, now it's just "enhanced". It's a terrific lifestyle for those mature enough to understand that it's not "cheating", it's just sex - plain and simple!

[Noahsub]

They are mentally fucked up... And you got your self in the middle of it.

Unless you get a kick off humiliating another man by fucking his wife... Then you are a perfect phyco for them.

[bangyourhead]

I mean, yeah if you think they're safe... go for it.

[ask4any]

It's very common I've had a few experiences. I like it

[TheAteam1978]

Sure

[Bilover]

I've been a cuckold for many years and It's wonderful! I get along with her lover very well and my wife and I love each other very much. She gets the amazing sex that I'm not very good at and she's happy. She doesn't want to leave me for him, she is just happy to give herself to him and I support that!

[Anonymous]

I couldn't imagine ever enjoying something like that, but some people are into it. I don't see anything unethical about it as long as they both consent.

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong with that I let my wife do it