Here is how women's sexuality works

Here is how womens sexuality works

Men always have hard time to understand women specially when it comes to sexual desire and how female mind works.

Men don't understand why women hate nice guys and love bad boys.

Men are 100% visual. Their visual neuron cortex connected to their sexual arousal center. When a man see a sexy woman instantly feels sexual attraction. Even if he doesn't know her name. Just purely visual sexual attraction. In microseconds.

But women don't work like that. And there is a reason behind it.

It’s all go back to how we evolved.

Men judge women based on fertility signs and these signs are visual of course.

But women judge men based on survival potential. And that's not totally about looks, it also about personality. A man has to have masculine personality traits and good social skills in order to survive.

What are those traits?

Confidence, aggressive, dominant, competitive behavior, courage, deep voice. These are indication of high testosterone and therefore it means healthy strong genes.

When women see a tall muscular handsome man they don't feel the same sexual attraction like men see sexy woman. Most of the time women just like how he looks. That's it.

But after that when women get to know that person they try to understand how he moves, how he talks, his attitude, is he really confident guy, does he have masculine vibe etc. They look for those.

Why women do that? Because a man can look good on the outside but can be weak, insecure, awkward in the inside and that wouldn't make him survive in the wild. You need to have enough looks and personality.

Good looks just helps you in the first impression but after that it's all about personality, your communication skills. Because these are as important as looks for them. When women see these masculine traits in you they desire you like you desire them in the first place. If you are handsome tall and also confident this process will take much shorter of course (sometimes even couple minutes) but the process is the same for every guy.

That's why also dick pics from strangers won't do anything for women.

Also that's why women sometimes lie about who they desire because they try to understand your real personality.

Women seek masculinity if you lack of it you will never be sexually attractive men even you look like Calvin Klein model.

Of course the opposite if you are too ugly or too unattractive physically masculinity or confidence will make you look creepy this is another fact.

So this is how things work.

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  • 100%. Some people will say as others have already said "we don't live in the stone age anymore". The thing is attraction comes from the most primitive part of the brain, the instinctive part, which remains unchanged since those times. When people try to explain what they find attractive and why however, they come from the conscious part of the brain, which deals with logic.

    Attraction has nothing to do with that part of the brain. Attraction isn't logical, it's instinctive. It isn't a choice. You can use logic to decide whether or not somebody is a good long-term partner, sure, but you can't logically decide whether to find something attractive or not.

    Most people don't understand that, and that's why they say that. That's also why most dating advice and the things people say about what they like is so confusing and often doesn't even really work in the real world. That's why we often see people contradict themselves and say they like X and hate Y, but then in reality they go for Y and reject X.

  • This is 100% spot on. Much of it is not politically correct to say today so it rarely gets said, and when it does there are some women who will protest adamantly, as Anon 10-24 does above. But it is truth nonetheless. Thanks for posting.

    • And if she's telling the truth why does she post anonymously? Women always hide their faces.

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  • Women are very visual and looks should not be underplayed. Though personality and the way you act is important too

    • you are right i'm not saying they are not visual they are less visual

  • A lot of guys fail because they listen, and take seriously the sort of stuff that Anon 18-24 just said (thx for the good laugh). The number one rule (if you still want to waste your time chasing tail) is to ignore everything they say, and simply watch what they do.

    • Couldn't agree more.

  • Eh, yeah, kinda true.

    • why kind of?

  • Well done.
    I have said that men want to see a woman naked.
    Women want to see a man relentlessly chop down a tree.

  • I still think women aren't visual because they are willing to settle with really ugly guys for other reasons. Men dont do the same

  • There is no right or wrong points here just a fact that is presented and its really the perceptions that we have build for ourselves due to influence of our surroundings everyone gets attracted by visual beauty in first sight some go for personality some women go for security some fall in love with amount of freedom and care presented by partners we can't say it's just one thing it all depends on what one desires from life and the way they look at it.

    • women are visual of course but not like us. They feel sexual desire when get to know the person little bit. We feel instantly if she is attractive.

  • Well said.

  • Oh, I known it! But that doesn't mean I like it ;P

  • Kinda agree

    • Perhaps, ladies, but he represents a silent majority of men who are now "woke" from the Feminist con. If we can't find what we want amongst the Feminist-contaminated gene pool, a couple of Billion foreign born East Asian and Latin American ladies await. Score one for "diversity" while you curl up with your rabbit vibrators that were sold to you by the White Male Patriarchy.

    • As a woman is your "desire and like" in a man (as in everything) related visually? Or is it more through audio?

  • From a man POV

    • What is your POV?

  • True

  • Its half true

  • Nice mytake

  • Dude, we don't live in the stone age any more, I'm not looking for a cave man hunter.
    Yeah, dick pics of strangers won't do anything for me, but I might like their owners, because I'm actually very visual, and I like how certain guys look (face, body).
    Personality is important, but not more important than initial attraction.
    I don't support gender roles because they are primitive stereotypes, so called "masculinity" and "femininity" are just a social construct, created by religion.
    Every individual is different, regardless of their gender, when I see a guy I like, his personality won't change my opinion on his looks... and vice versa, when I see a guy I don't like (physically), his personality won't make him look better in my eyes.
    Am I shallow? No, it's called natural selection, we all have different preferences.

    • Oh look, I got downvoted by an ugly guy, a fat guy, a nerdy guy and and old geezer 😂

    • And tall handsome guy.

    • Nah, that's just a duplicate profile made by of one of those guys, probably the nerd ;)