I often see guys here asking multiple questions about whether a girl they like also likes them back. They're usually waiting for an obvious sign before showing interest, afraid of rejection or asking at the wrong time.
There are a few issues with this approach:
1) Women rarely give obvious signs, since they also fear rejection and tend to hint indirectly. Even if she likes you, she likely won't provide a clear green light unless very confident.
2) Some women seem interested but are just friendly. Others are reserved even if they do like you. The only way to know for sure is to take the risk and ask.
3) There is no perfect time. After talking for weeks or months, you think more "work" is needed before she'll say yes. But she already has a good idea by now whether she sees you that way. Waiting longer can actually hurt your chances for a few reasons.
4) The longer you stay platonic friends, the more you become stuck in the friend zone. Things might have been different had you asked her out earlier, before that friendship solidified. She then would have had less to lose dating you.
5) In today's dating scene, a woman's feelings can shift quickly with so many options. She might like you now but assume you're not interested when you don't make a move. Then another guy , who isn’t messing around, asks her out first and becomes her focus since they're actually dating.
6) A lot of you guys seem to be imagining a connection that doesn't really exist with a crush. For example, I recently answered a question from a guy who said a girl asked his opinion about whether some other guy was right for her. He wondered if this meant her feelings for him were now less than before. But it's clear she sees him only as a friend - she wanted a male perspective and had no clue he was even interested. Yet somehow, he thought that there was something there before this point. Until you actually start dating, it's only happening in your head.
All this agonizing over perfect timing is a waste of time. If you want anything to happen, make your move instead of trying to mind-read and analyzing every little interaction to death.
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