Hey, how bad are you at sex when barely began? How old were you when you lost your virginity & had raw sex? Gow was it were you nervous?

Just wondering because I haven't gotten close to a girl at all and a little bit horny XD

Have I been living life or no because I haven't done the most basic things most guys do?
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  • I didn't know what I was doing on my first time at 15, she was older and basically told me what to do, I wasn't nervous I don't think because I was drunk and it was a spur of the moment thing so no build up and anticipation to worry about. Also because of the situation we didn't use a condom either, stupid drunk kids.

    • Oh. Really, were you scared that you got her pregnant?

    • It honestly didn't even cross my mind at the time.

    • Oh really

  • I was a few months shy of turning 18. I was nervous but psyched at the same time. Fortunately my girlfriend had had sex before with a previous boyfriend. She was also on birth control. We had sex 3 times my first afternoon and each orgasm kept getting better!

    • Oh, really damm, that's hot

    • I still was kinda nervous but I guess we all were. I had had a lot of handjobs before it but getting naked and having sex was way better.

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  • It's not really hard to be bad at sex if your a girl. Long as you wiggle and respond to him your doing fine and sorry guys but if a virgins starfishing its probably your technique.

    • Why is sex harder for guys? Is fucking and not cumming hard?

    • On the surface it's only slide dick back and forth so it should be easy. But that's also the technique for playing a violin.

    • Oh, well how bad are virgins would you say at fucking?

  • I was pretty talented naturally but I was very nervous my first time. (Though of course I had done other stuff before.)

    • Cool, so do you think that I will suck when I do it for my first time? 😖😖

    • No, but don’t rush into it! Move slowly. Follow the bases. Make her cum with your fingers and your mouth. Don’t jump straight from first kiss to fucking.

    • Oh, okay, should kiss her neck and pussy. I never been close with a girl before so I might be nervous about it.

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  • I had no time to be nervous, and it wasn't planned... was just the moment, and the right moment at the time... one thing I should say to you is very important, definitely USE some form of protection

  • No one ever told me I was bad. Even the first time we had a great time.

    • Damm for real?

    • yes, strange question :)

    • Oh, well I'm just wondering because I'm still a virgin and just wonder how bad an I at fucking? 😊

  • I picked it up pretty quick. People have been doing it forever. If it was really difficult to figure out , we would not be having the population explosion we are having today.

    • Yeah, you're right

  • I have no idea how bad I was, but I'm better now.
    Lost virginity a month before I turned 17.
    Raw sex? First time at 17/18.

    • Cool, so was it hard doing raw sex?

    • Why would it be hard?

    • Like trying not to cum inside, lasting long, or making sure she came

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  • I have always been a sexual creature. Did the "investigative" thing at around 5 or 6, got my first blowjob at 10, and began having sex at 15. I guess everything needs to fall into place for you to have a sexual experience.

    • Oh, well me too but things never into place for me at all.

  • I used a condom and it was awkward, didn't cum, it was a few strokes or a few thrusts and then I lost my erection

  • It was in different ways unforgettable. I was 17, she was around 35 and she seduced me in the back of her car. My first entry was awkward and I only managed a few strokes and could not hold it. Embarrassed, I breathlessly apologised but I was hard again in no time at all and she guided me through it the rest of the time. I learned a lot that night, had my first taste of pussy and received my first blow job.

    • Oh, nice so, what do you think about virgins in their mid twenties?

    • I would say try and get initiated by an older woman. You're still young enough.

  • I was 19 and so nervous, I lost my erection. After that though, everything went great.

    • Damm, okay

  • Looking back my girlfriend and I had pretty bad sex when we started. We didn't know it at the time though. We weren't that nervous because we were both ready.

    • That's sweet

  • I was 15 and no i wasn't nervous & i used a condom

    • Cool, so how good were you at 15?

    • I didn't even know what i was doing lol until the third time

    • Lol, cool I still don't know

  • I'm vegan

    • Nice

    • thanks

  • You are chris jericho?

    • Chris who?

    • wwe chris?

    • no, why does that has to do with anything?

  • every man is bad the first time. I suggest getting comfortable around someone first, that will make it easier. My first time was a girl I met at a party and we were wasted, I was so nervous and drunk I had trouble keeping it up. Also had some trouble with that with my next girl, but it’s slowly getting better. I can stay hard for an hour now, even more sometimes, for me it’s all about nerves. Some people get more nervous than others

    • Oh, okay