Okay, so to explain more. Me and my partner have been talking about a threesome but they are worried. They are worried I’ll get jealous when they fuck her. But I’m actually worried I’ll love her. I am straight or thought I was but I really want to do this and more to do it with a female. What does this mean and should I?
Be quite careful with this. Usually women who are turned on by the idea find they can't go through with it, or if they do, it forever changes and often ruins the relationship. If a woman fantasizes about her man being with another woman, she could just be harnessing control to beat her feelings of jealousy first, knowing that in regular circumstances she wouldn't do it. I've heard of this before, where women who are very insecure suddenly tell themselves that they want to see their partner have sex with someone else because it's a turn on, but they are really just trying to overpower jealousy by telling themselves as long as they're okay with it and control the situation, then it's okay for it to be done. It's a weird, twisted logic, but it happens.
If you're actually attracted to women too, then the infidelity is still going to be there. Being a bisexual woman is not some free pass for a man to assume he's got threesomes coming his way. Bisexual people still have feelings of love and wanting monogamy with someone just as heterosexual people do, and still form feelings of jealousy if their partner shows interest in someone else.
Really check your feelings about women. If it's sexual only, it does not necessarily mean you are bisexual. Bisexual people have romantic feelings of love for both sexes, as in, they can see themselves in relationships with either/or. If your kink is just to be with women because you want to sexually please your man, or be seen as a bit freaky for him, this is a slippery slope. Nothing will remain the same with him, and it can create feelings of expecting it again, or more often. If you decide it's not working, I've yet to hear of a couple that can go back to "the way it was". But it can be good times for you both too and you can add it to your sexual experience to understand what you can and can't handle. Just know that this relationship will likely be the pawn for you to decide that.
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As a women who really likes them and is open and couple swaps... I really like the girl so much and a few times fell in love with her!
Really things are so exciting and emotional but over time it is just a crush you have the man you want and if open!
Well you can meet with her too maybe him watching but it is all emotions you have your love in time your falling in love with her will fade.
Go for it or at least talk about it more see what you decide and if you need 3 some advice I'm so open to any questions!
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Only had one with a couple (married couple) and my only regret is that I did not stay in touch with them. It was before COVID, before everything turned to crap.
I'm confused, with what you said: YOU and your 'partner have been talking about a threesome but 'they' are worried? 'They are worried that you will get jealous when they fuck her" Your partner is a girl. You are actually worried that you will love her, but you are STRAIGHT or thought you were?
No matter the details, but my POV is that you only go around ONCE in life, and you should do as you want to do, and NOT worry about "what if"? Go ahead and do it!
My threesome was a MMF and i would do it again in a heartbeat, if I had not been so stupid as to lose contact with them. The thing that screwed it up for me, was that I could not get a hard-on with his wife, and he was like a 'broom handle' and he was bi-sexual, and that did not bother me.
0 0 0 0Well you just like the idea and attracted to having a nice girl to have fun with. You just got to be sure you really want to do it with a girl and make sure no emotions are involved and just make sure everyone knows it just sex. Me and my girlfriend and some past girlfriends we had threesomes and we always laid out some ground rules and made sure everyone was on the same page mentally so emotions was totally out during sex. You can do as much during sex to her or let him do what he want to her just make sure your emotions are in check.
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